"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know that it has probably been posted about before, but why isn't there a FR forum?

I am not questioning your reasons or authority, just for the benefit of all here.


I do think it would be a good idea, if people would actually write honestly.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the person that reopened the site and welcomed everybody back 5 days ago(17th)...

Isn't that person Allen?
 

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To quote palahniuk

“You gain power by pretending to be weak. By contrast, you make people feel strong. You save people by letting them save you.
All you have to do is be fragile and grateful. So stay the underdog.
People really need somebody they feel superior to. So stay downtrodden.
People need somebody they can send a check at Christmas. So stay poor.
"Charity" isn't the right word, but it's the first word that comes to mind”

I'd like to know the context of that quote... who's seen the movie?
 

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penkitten said:
there are other sites that have feild report places. check out eternals
http://www.getsmf.com/phpbb/index.php?mforum=eternal
I know there are, but when all is said and done, everything on this site, all the advice, all the articles, everything, is not worth nearly as much as experience. The most learning can come from practice and people reading about others' experience.

An FR forum would add a tremendous deal to this site.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hey, there is nothing wrong with my site!

Anyway, like Godsgifttowomen said, it's Allen's choice. After seeing how many people ask for it though, I'm not sure it'll come soon. It's not very suavely to ask for something.
 

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Eternal said:
Hey, there is nothing wrong with my site!

Anyway, like Godsgifttowomen said, it's Allen's choice. After seeing how many people ask for it though, I'm not sure it'll come soon. It's not very suavely to ask for something.
eternal, I wasn't attacking your site in any way. I haven't even been to it frankly, although I will stop by later if possible.

I know it is Allen's choice, and I respect it either way, cuz I do post FRs on other forums like Shezz's, but this site could be better with one.
 

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Eternal said:
Hey, there is nothing wrong with my site!

Anyway, like Godsgifttowomen said, it's Allen's choice. After seeing how many people ask for it though, I'm not sure it'll come soon. It's not very suavely to ask for something.
There is a FR forum!!!! That is something that isn't spread very much.


It's not very suavely to ask for something
Give me a minute, I'll put something on the DJ discussion board that's alittle more advanced than 'directly asking for something'.

One thing that I really desire to learn is how to "ask for something like a DJ"

All I know, it has something to do with emotions. If you want a true and cutting answer, that you desire, you have to lead the implications of a question.

Who in history posed questions that rocked the planet? Einstein, Napoleon, JFK? Without being in control of your emotions when you ask, your words don't flow properly, and your emotions aren't satisfied with a good answer:(
 
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