"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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frivolousz21

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if you have a forum for the mature man.....25 and up.

can you atleast have one for guys 21 to 25?????

this is a great place.....it seems most of the posters on the mainboard are teenagers...or one for 20 to 25....I dont get why the older guys think a 17 yr old a 23 yr old are one in the same..when its not even close.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NumenMalefic

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Friv u sound desperate

i sense u are scared

dont wanna grow up

why didnt u wrap the snake

now i can smell the fear from here

will u be a wimp n abandone ur kid
 

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ive been a long time reader and ive been watching all the drama in this forum and I agree with frivolouse21.
 

frivolousz21

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Friv u sound desperate

i sense u are scared

dont wanna grow up

why didnt u wrap the snake

now i can smell the fear from here

will u be a wimp n abandone ur kid

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if you had a child coming your perpective would change.
 

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I agree. It's weird being cast out of the two advice categories when 18-25 is the age range where men are in their sexual prime.

I'm 21, btw. I mentioned 18 because that's when the age range starts and because you're not necessarily still in high school at that age, depending on which country you live in.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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They should just change the "Mature Men" forum to "Men's Rights" and add a Long Term Relationship forum. The immature kids who can't even get along with their fellow forum members are unlikely to have much intrest in LTRs and would hopefully not post so much in that forum. Of course, they need to get rid of a lot of the trolls, too.
 

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they banned many who should not have been banned. their are many who should be but they are not trolls only a-holes and to the mods thats not enough. mroriginal was young but he was not a troll and they went ahead and banned him anyway because he spoke the truth meanwhile you got some meat head messing around the main forum. ive been reading here for along time but today was the day I felt like joining.
 

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This has been discussed a ton of times and every time we've decided that the Don Juan Discussion forum is enough to bridge the gap between HS and MM.

Also, lets not make this into a complaining about a certain forum, or mod actions.
 

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Originally posted by ______-O-___-___
they banned many who should not have been banned. their are many who should be but they are not trolls only a-holes and to the mods thats not enough. mroriginal was young but he was not a troll and they went ahead and banned him anyway because he spoke the truth meanwhile you got some meat head messing around the main forum. ive been reading here for along time but today was the day I felt like joining.
obviously you are mroriginal or one of his fellow idiot friends


back on topic

I agree with a 19-24 age forum, or to just let 20+ post on the Mature Man forum.
 

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Originally posted by piranha45
obviously you are mroriginal or one of his fellow idiot friends


back on topic

I agree with a 19-24 age forum, or to just let 20+ post on the Mature Man forum.
But 20+ isn't mature. I don't think 25 is mature to be honest. It's for problems unique to older men.

If you don't like the site, leave. (Actually I'm rather close to doing that myself)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
if you have a forum for the mature man.....25 and up.

can you atleast have one for guys 21 to 25?????
We do. It's called "Don Juan Discussion".
 
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