Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not as much logging on to some mewling faggot crying "You're all woman hating fart rapists" in an endless stream of snark and new accounts angrily pouting at poon king you weirdo.Moto 15 said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah it's all calm now but you always end up eventually losing it and having a meltdown when the feeelz get too much for you. You can set your watch to it. The repetition is almost mechanical. manosphincter fart rape !! :cuss:Moto 15 said:
Hell I've coaxed (trolled) your meltdowns out of you in less than 3 posts.WTF? Who the hell are you? You're having the melt down. On second thought, forget it. This place is a joke.( . )( . ) said:Yeah it's all calm now but you always end up eventually losing it and having a meltdown when the feeelz get too much for you. You can set your watch to it. The repetition is almost mechanical. manosphincter fart rape !! :cuss:
