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I think if a mod is going to delete a post-they should send a pm to explain.
thnks
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So when "iluvd!ck69" posts nothing but links to tubgirl, we should send them a PM saying;Originally posted by tj
I think if a mod is going to delete a post-they should send a pm to explain.
thnks
I just checked the list of any actions taken on "STR8UP's beginners guide to becoming WEALTHY". It hasn't been touched (no replies have been deleted, it hasn't been moved, closed, etc etc). It may be an issue with your computer or the server; I don't think any moderator is bored enough to go around arbitrarily deleting random posts for no good reason.Originally posted by Create Reality
No VirtualMind, Its when my valid post in STR8UP's guide to riches gets deleted we should be asking questions.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Originally posted by diablo
As for sending a PM to people every time their thread is closed or deleted, it would be more time consuming than you'd imagine. It takes enough time for me to include a link to a results page every time I close a thread by saying "try a search, please" (after doing a search for them)... if people can't follow the directions under the stickied thread titled "Read this BEFORE posting or your thread may be deleted!" then they shouldn't be shocked when lo and behold their thread is gone. Most deleted threads were deleted for a reason, anyway - either they asked a question that had been answered a million times before (i.e. "How long should I wait to call her?", "What should I do on our date?") or they appeared to have been written by a person in the 3rd grade (i.e. "If a girl wears nice clothes does it mean she's a golddigger?" - an actual thread I deleted earlier today..). Generally speaking, the threads that (I) delete are short, stupid, inappropriate, or just plain mindless. Oh, or they're one sentence threads - but a pretty good guideline for what gets deleted is already laid out in the thread I mentioned that's stickied at the top of DJ Discussion.
If your thread simply has a link and some generic message body like "discuss this article", it obviously doesn't mean a whole lot to you - or you would have told us more about it. If you can't even give a good opinion on it how do you expect others to? While I don't recall the particular thread in question, I would be highly doubtful that a thread containing a link in which the poster discussed what his views were on the article in question would be deleted.Originally posted by diablo
...you wouldn't make a new thread unless the subject mattered to you... so show us that it matters.
From this point on, threads lacking details, mainly those with only 1-2 sentences in the body, will be deleted as soon as a moderator comes across them
Originally posted by tj
Obvioulsy, the moderators could care less about listening to our side about making the board better. I think the use of "troll" is rather insipid and demeaning term to be used by a "dj"... I will let that speak for itself.
Good day gents.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
actually, this is not what this thread is about at all. Please go back and reread the first initial post.Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
A thread complaining about moderators?
How inspired and original!
Ok, well since your initial question has been answered then I'll just close this thread.Originally posted by tj
actually, this is not what this thread is about at all. Please go back and reread the first initial post.
I think Diablo did a fine job illuminating the mods position.
However, if you have nothing better to do on my threads than misinterpret my operandi and try to start an arguement with me-whilst hurling immature comments like this-A true dj should have better things to do. I ask that-for your own good-please don't post unless you add can something of value to my threads.
Besides Giovini-I refuse to attack those that cannot defend themselves. Peace.
Good day gents!