ModeOne

[DJVladdy]

i always feel a lack of trust to the people who write "seduction books"

lol, to the point that i emailed this author named "swingcat" to meet so i can meet with him to beat him down. whatever

But this dude, i was impressed how he speaks the thruth. Yes he put it sort of in a nerdy format, but he is educated its cool. Everything he says in the video hits the nail on the head. Respek

 

[Serialized3]

Because I know people who Know people who know more people

I agree with your advice being focused on results (Getting pvssy) will only come back to bite you on the arse. But like most things that are important in this game you will have a hard time accomplishing any of them if you haven’t already fixed (or atleast improved) you're beliefs!!.

What do you think is the best way to change your belief system?

For me, I think my belief system developed from not only reading extensively about philosophy, history, psychology, sociology, social psych, communications, theology, and biology, but also by becoming more conscious and getting more life experience, all of which provided the ability to pull these everything together to better understand the human experience.

Whats your take on that snip I posted from Alan?

I don't quite understand what he means by saying that ModeOne isn't about changing who you are, but then proceeds to tell you how you can be a better you by changing your attitudes, beliefs, and habits. If that isn't changing who you are, I don't know what is, but I believe that improving yourself is a good thing, and that our "nature" (whatever that means) is flexible.

I would agree with his idea that trying to put on a good appearance and hide you're "true self" from women is a serious mistake that many men make when gaming, perhaps not #1, but he's gotta sell his product, right?

I'm sure his system can teach you to better communicate with women, but I'm always wary of a sophist who promises to sell me the system to a better way of living.

 

[lyamdb]

I don't need to learn some system in order to be "bold, upfront, direct and unapologetic" when I speak or write.

Serialized3, can you please define what is meant by Mode One? Cuz your post implies you actually have no idea. Its not a technic to help men become bold. Mode One behaviour is being yourself and stop hiding your intentions. That's it. Its not a technic. Its not some system designed to help men change. Now, I don't quite undrestand, what's your problem with that? Are you saying men shouldn't be their true self and they shouldn't express their intentions clearly? Should they be aftaid of being streight forward? If you are already bold, upfront and direct in your relationships, then you are exibiting mode one behaviour. Well most guys aren't like that. And somebody has written a book explaining to them why they should be like that.
Now what's that you don't like here?

 

[Serialized3]

Serialized3, can you please define what is meant by Mode One? Cuz your post implies you actually have no idea. Its not a technic to help men become bold. Mode One behaviour is being yourself and stop hiding your intentions. That's it. Its not a technic. Its not some system designed to help men change. Now, I don't quite undrestand, what's your problem with that? Are you saying men shouldn't be their true self and they shouldn't express their intentions clearly? Should they be aftaid of being streight forward? If you are already bold, upfront and direct in your relationships, then you are exibiting mode one behaviour. Well most guys aren't like that. And somebody has written a book explaining to them why they should be like that.
Now what's that you don't like here?

Perhaps you should read my post above, because I already addressed your questions.

 

[Viking25]

Mode one will work with a certain type of woman. There is no building comfort in Mode one behavior. You ask woman out within 2 minutes of starting talking to her. It's good if you are just looking for sex. But forget about those "good girl" types...they will reject you just because they are traditional and won't "get together" with a guy after talking to him for 2 mins.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Serialized3:
You guys are nerds.

sexybeast:
And why is that MR too cool for school?

because you say things like "MR too cool for school"

anyways all im saying is that this stuff will never work in clubs as well as Mystery Method UNLESS you are a stunner. im saying this based on my own experiences and many other PUA's experiences, and also being on these forums for 2 years. DIRECT GAME sucks at night because EVERYONE who is a guy, and is drinking, will use direct game! think about it why else is girls b|tch shields so high at clubs? because they are used to guys coming up to them and using the direct method. where as if you be the gentlemen and fool around with them and take their wall DOWN then yo will be 10X more succesful. i dont believe im saying anything thats too hard to comprehend. or understand. once again dont be offended, im just saying my opinion.

Im sorry but what those guys do is NOT direct game. Direct game isn't just saying "You're beautiful". Being direct is when u go right up to them from the front, saying what u have to say in a powerful way with ur eyes looking "deeply" into hers with a warm smile. Direct game is not what those drunk guys do. Do u honestly believe they do that?

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Direct absolutely relies on how u say it...its extremely important. Say it like any average guy, than thats wat u would be. But say it while being charming, then u'll be that.