"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Luveno

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This is for all you guys who are intimidated by girls who say they are " models":


It's amazing how many girls are ' models '. Models for who? If I don't know their name then they aren't worth a dime.
Modelling is a way for a princessy girl with low self esteem to feel like she's sexy. Same with porn.
Those girls are only worth the semen in your glands. Not your love, affection, respect, trust, nothing. Just sex.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Evil-Rom

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"Oh really? So how long have you been a hand model?"
 

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Originally posted by Evil-Rom
"Oh really? So how long have you been a hand model?"
lmao

my 4 year old cousin is a model. are you calling her a princessy b!tch!!!??
 

zerocelcius

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WOOOOO their cow boy....!!!!!!!!!!

FIRST OF ALL THEIR IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A MODEL

So if you are a bit defensive about models don't be. It is a J>O>B> period.

BUT being a model makes you nothing more or less than anybody else.!!!!!

OK? OK!

SHieeesh
 

Fatality

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Alot of people claim to be models just because they modeled once in their lifetime. When somebody tells you they are a model it might mean they are doing absoulutely nothing, which is better than saying "I'm unemployed."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Dukester
lmao

my 4 year old cousin is a model. are you calling her a princessy b!tch!!!??
Yes he is. You gonna let him get away with that? Bet you will. You should be a model.
 

diablo

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Originally posted by Luveno
This is for all you guys who are intimidated by girls who say they are " models":


It's amazing how many girls are ' models '. Models for who? If I don't know their name then they aren't worth a dime.
Modelling is a way for a princessy girl with low self esteem to feel like she's sexy. Same with porn.
Those girls are only worth the semen in your glands. Not your love, affection, respect, trust, nothing. Just sex.
Sounds like a blatant generalization to me. So all models who aren't famous are princessy girls who have low self esteem? Sorry, but I think you're completely off base. Perhaps in your mind this is true, and for whatever reason you've decided to share this view with the rest of us, but I'm of the notion that each person is unique, with their own personality, temperament, and flaws - and that you can't just put everyone into one nice little category just because they model. Doing this is the mark of someone with little to no intelligence.

The first person to comment about my run-on sentence gets shot at dawn.
 

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To diablo,

it is human nature to generalize, and generally, these girls that call themselves 'models' are usually the princessy type that need to get off on ego trips all the time. They've realized they can use their looks to get money, not to mention trance-like stares from many the man that happens to catch a glimpse. These are the type of girls that DJs have to bring down a few notches. It is unfortunate that most guys only elevate these womens' egos.
Even if the girl isn't originally an attention *****, she usually eventually becomes one, due to the attention and exaltation she recieves from men.
Too many guys on this site list this as one of the reasons said girl they are pursuing is 'perfect' or intimidating. I think that this reason is total bull****.

I find it funny that you decided to take my post and insult me personally with it. Have I struck a nerve with you? Are you dating, or currently infatuated with, a so called ' model'? Do you not want to believe the truth, even after having almost 10 times the number of forum posts as I? Alas, it seems you are the truly ignorant one.
 
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