Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Modelling and Tanning... need some dj advice

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I was walking around campus today and some lady came up to me, introduced herself, and said they were looking for students to model for some gay something.

she said i was "absolutely gorgeous" and that the only thing that i should do is to probably get a tan. like... go to the tanning bed... like that sounds mega super ghey... like...

1) should i do this modelling thing? ive never done it. i dont really think im all that good looking. it doesnt pay... but i could probably find some fine womens

2) i would feel like such a fag going tanning, but i totally need a tan haha.

SO GIVE ME ADVICE YOU FREAKIN BADASS PEOPLE!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Every man has his own destiny. You shall become a supermodel and use your influence to combat world hunger. What's more important? Your pitiful masculinity or starving babies?
 

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Odds are she hit you with a compliment to get you to do consider doing it (which worked), not because she likes you.
 

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i dont care... she was pretty much like... 40. read...

anyway... I WANT TO SAVE BABIES SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
 

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What I'm trying to tell you is that it wasn't really a compliment. It is a luring technique and you're already dreaming about saving babies over it.

Slap yourself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Going tanning doesn't make you gay...the only thing that makes you gay is having sex with other men.

A good tan can improve your overall appearance and help you with women.
 

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why not do it? it's actually not uncommon for guys in their 20s to get chances to do this stuff...because most guys are not out there *looking for a modeling career. this unpaid thing might lead to something paid, and getting paid for modeling (read: standing around doing nothing) is always good!
 

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Originally posted by Enjin 7
said they were looking for students to model for some gay something. she said i was "absolutely gorgeous" and that the only thing that i should do is to probably get a tan.
So wait, you were approached on campus by a woman who wants you to model for a homosexual magazine/advertisement/etc ("something")? While I think your zeal is commendable, I would wonder if you might consider it a mistake 20 years down the line when you're running for office somewhere and your opponent shows a magazine cover with "To see Enjin 7 in his boxer briefs and rainbow paint on his face, turn to page 42!". Anyway, your call.

About the tanning, there's no reason not too. The only thing I can think of would be insecurity... and since you're thinking about modeling for a homsexual "something" or other I guess you're pretty secure in your sexuality. At least, I hope you are - either that or you're on the wrong board.
 

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If you'd have no problem doing that sort of thing go for it. I personally wouldn't model for something I do not stand for (homosexuality). But I don't understand when some guys think. "It seems gay". If you aren't gay what does it matter? :cool:
 

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OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SHYEEEEEEEEEEEEYIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITT!!!

it wasnt actually for something gay. gay as in like, "i dont care for it". not actually gay.

I NEED TO THINK BEFORE I POOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOST!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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its OKAY for guys to tan....
 

DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by Enjin 7
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SHYEEEEEEEEEEEEYIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITT!!!

it wasnt actually for something gay. gay as in like, "i dont care for it". not actually gay.

I NEED TO THINK BEFORE I POOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOST!!!
LMFAO!!! that's what happen when a word's meaning changes. :crackup:
 

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I tan, groom and dress well and think nothing of it. Sure, guys can be b1tchy and call me gay, but it's obvious they're insecure and trying to bring me down.

I was also scouted to do some modelling earlier in the year. I was very flattered and it gave my self-esteem a massive boost, but I left it at a one off as I'm too camera shy to pursue it any further.

If I was you though, I'd go for it and don't give a fvck what other people say! Guys who use the gay insult against guys who look good are like fat women who use the anorexic or bimbo insult towards slim and attractive women.
 

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Originally posted by HereToImprove
Going tanning doesn't make you gay...the only thing that makes you gay is having sex with other men.

what if you had to choose between fùckin 3 beautiful men or having your mother raped by the butthole by 3 butt ugly men covered in pig's crap and in their same shame (they had already fùcked your father in a gangbang mode)? i think that you wouldn't be gay just because you fùcked those 3 men
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
what if you had to choose between fùckin 3 beautiful men or having your mother raped by the butthole by 3 butt ugly men covered in pig's crap and in their same shame (they had already fùcked your father in a gangbang mode)? i think that you wouldn't be gay just because you fùcked those 3 men
I think you need to get out more.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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id model if i was you, (except for gay stuff)
hey photographers are gay so get used to it, but when it comes to standing nude for some gay menz mag, ill pass that up no thankz.

you could join a local agency from there and earn some small cash on the side while in college or even when you doing your normal 9 to 5,
im in a small modell agency and when ever i ge job offers i could earn up to, 80 per hour for 5 hours in a day and i get jobs atleast twice or once a month(think of what a bigger agency could pay you if you can get bookings). so go for it and its good for your confidence, its like if you get rejected by a girl you dont care, your subconcious tell you im a model b i t c h. go to hell.:crackup:
 

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lol you people have problems

over here nobody would even think about labeling a guy gay because he goes to the tanning salon.....people only think your an *******/player haha
 
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