Mode one questions

[Divorced w 3]

You mustn't have gotten what you wanted for Christmas this year, huh?

Credibly accused...you can read, can't you? Go back into that thread and read what happened.

Slept with a girl, who I spent the night with and kissed me goodbye, who later followed me on Instagram, "loved" my messages, and didn't have a problem with me until she read a scathing review of me on the Tea app - which, by the way, was almost certainly written by my sister, who is almost as mental as you.

Meanwhile, you have been both physically and verbally abusive to your ex because you can't seem to control your emotions - something that I, and several others, tried to help you with in the no-contact thread, which is certainly shining through right now. I think that is a bigger issue, especially when you're already a divorcee who seems prone to getting mad about what OTHER people are doing wrong.

As for my personal opinions on Mode One, I simply agreed with what somebody else said. I wrote 9 words, 2 sentences...and look at you, hunting me down because the other thread got locked before you were done having your fit.

You've accused me of being a sexual predator and insinuated that I must be gay because of my profile picture (which is me, btw, sorry I don't spend all day on the internet coming up with new profile pictures like your old baseball player, criminal mugshot, gorilla, and now Spumoni Gardens pictures), all less than 2 months after receiving support from multiple members of this forum, including myself, to help you overcome a problem YOU created.

You have problems. You seem to be aware of them, but you do nothing about them. Seriously, just step away from the computer.

Did you seriously just list every picture i used over 4 years here?

thought: you bow out of the mode one thead and we all look the other way of you looking and sounding like jeffrey dahmer

deal?

You’re a weird fvcking dude and I have nothing else to say on this issue.

 

[BPH]

Did you seriously just list every picture i used over 4 years here?

thought: you bow out of the mode one thead and we all look the other way of you looking and sounding like jeffrey dahmer

deal?

You’re a weird fvcking dude and I have nothing else to say on this issue.

You haven't even been on the forum for 4 years, but I guess you're not good at math either.

Thought: I do us both a favor and block you until you take your bipolar meds and stop having your midlife tantrums.

Deal, wifebeater?

 

[Plinco]

 

[Manure Spherian]

That's what separates the men from the clowns, as they are.

Fixed that for you. I commend your boldness Mr. Venom. I could have had much more when I was a young man.

 

[Divorced w 3]

You haven't even been on the forum for 4 years, but I guess you're not good at math either.

Thought: I do us both a favor and block you until you take your bipolar meds and stop having your midlife tantrums.

Deal, wifebeater?

I haven’t beaten any women yet. You admitted under your own name, on the internet, which is insane, that you’ve been credibly accused of sexual assault by multiple women. That men actually reveal themselves to you and pay you for this methodology is even crazier. Back to the point, I think I’m going to stick with mode one. Thx.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

I went out this morning telling myself that I was in no mood to approach. When I got into the gym this morning, I saw a bunch of girls who I'd want to approach. Especially two girls that I initially saw from a distance. I could see their pretty faces and how energetic they were. They were also only partially clothed and these clothes were basically skin tight. I seriously thought about going mode one. These were the kind of girls that I wanted to fvck. I still told myself that I'm not doing any approaches. Halfway through my workout, these two girls kept working out next to me. One of the girls had some acne on her face, and I thought they were probably still in high school, so I just wrote it off there. Halfway through my Muay Thai, one of the girls kept walking past me multiple times and kept glancing at me. I said to myself "fvck it, I'm going to say something to her." I asked her if she's on winter break (I still assumed that she was in high school), then I asked her what school does she go to. She said she goes to UCF. My face lit up (20% because that's the school I went to, 80% because I realized she was over 18). I asked her what's her major, as then I immediately wanted to start hitting on her. She kept walking and looked nervous. She turned to me and smiled and kept walking away as I was slowly walking towards her, her pace was faster than mine as if to run away from me.

Normally I use the line "Hey, I thought you were gorgeous and had to come say hi, what’s your name?” Then I work into a phone number and a coffee date, which I think is something like mode 1.5.

@We_ArE_VeNOM
@SmoothHendrixPS2

This made me ask myself two questions:

1. Have you ever been kicked out, had the police called, been asked to leave, or something along these lines happen to you after doing mode one?
2. How well does mode one work if you are approaching a girl in a group, or with a friend? I've already been c0ckblocked by a girl's friends before. I assume the outcome would be about the same with mode one as well.

I rarely approach women at the gym. That's my time to lock in and focus on myself. Discipline is masculine. Gives off a mystery. Women have seen me in public from the gym and approached me, or even followed me on socials. Play the long game at the gym. @Plinco You gave off a vibe like you were chasing her. Practice seeking out IOI's. You gave her the frame right off the bat with small talk. If she was walking away that's your cue. You are the prize.

I approach females if they give me eye contact, whether they are in a group or not. Night life settings are easier and almost inevitable when it comes to groups. I always pick out a girl I am attracted to and see if she returns eye contact. If she does, I'll approach. I have been mode one hardcore (explicit and direct) at a club with a girl that was dancing with a group of her friends... I held eye contact, she smiled, I went over and danced with her for a moment, then whispered in her hear "You so fine I'm gonna stretch your P***y out"... she then looked at me shocked, but saw I was serious and indifferent to her reaction, and she continued to dance on me. After the song I moved around the venue and talked to other chicks. Before the let out of the club that same girl came and gave me her number and we smashed the next day. I have had quite a few same day seductions like this, another one with a hot 19 year old Dominican chick at the beach who was with her sister and nephews... Approached her and her older sis casually, started talking that talk in her ear, and an hour later she was blowing me in my car... ended up smashing a month later.

With that being said, I have had my share of harsh rejections when first practicing mode one. I tried a similar explicit line to a starbucks barista with no IOI, no positive eye contact or body language, and said it to her from 3 feet away, which resulted in me getting kicked out!

Do not go mode one to waitresses, bartenders, baristas, co workers!

The most underrated benefit of being mode one aware is socially calibrating yourself through EXPERIENCE. What made my club approach so successful was that I was smooth and WHISPERED in her ear as she reciprocated positive body language. Your approaches of mode one where you just blurt out a sexual remark or intention from say 4 feet away simply don't hit the same way as those where you are in closer proximity to her. It is seductive and turns her on if it's in her ear, you're smooth, in control of your tone and voice, and mean what you say. I learned over time that so much of mode one is being patient, reading energy, and self awareness.

If I go standard Mode 1 or mode 1.5 (non explicit but directly expressing intentions), say daygame our in public settings...I'll give her a confident grin, and simply say "wassup?" It's the way I hold my frame and body language with indifference to however she responds that usually sparks their interest. 90% of it is how you carry yourself... What you say is secondary. They can tell by the way I look at them, hold eye contact, and tone of voice that I'm a sexual dude. At this point I don't even have to express sexual desires, I just say an action compliment such as "You're sexy, take my number so we can get to know each other." That's it.

Hope this helps. Mode one will challenge you. It is not for everyone. Those who take action will get a AHA moment. It is the most powerful tool in my tool box, but I had to go out and take action to get where I am at today. Confidence is an action. Wisdom is gained through experience.

 

[Plinco]

Practice seeking out IOI's.

Don't you think waiting for a woman to give out an IOI is passive and or submissive? Why wait for permission to approach?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Don't you think waiting for a woman to give out an IOI is passive and or submissive? Why wait for permission to approach?

Shorten the process to finding the right person who’s gonna hookup. Why chase and force when there as so many fish in the sea that simply want it?

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Don't you think waiting for a woman to give out an IOI is passive and or submissive? Why wait for permission to approach?

That is true.

But there is a difference between waiting on IOI's, and relying on IOI's.

Most of you guys ain't getting IOI's anyway, so to rely on something that you ain't getting..is crazy work.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Shorten the process to finding the right person who’s gonna hookup. Why chase and force when there as so many fish in the sea that simply want it?

Because, not every woman that wants you, will necessarily give you signals.

And that is where guys get the game fuked up.

Most men tend to think..

No IOI's = no interest.

That's bullshiit.

Signal, or no signal...as a man, you are to approach, REGARDLESS.

 

[Travel memoir21]

The way I see it, if a girl likes you, she’ll make things especially easy for you. No need to play any games brother. From there, you can tease her, make her laugh, then after that build a sense of connection etc.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

Don't you think waiting for a woman to give out an IOI is passive and or submissive? Why wait for permission to approach?

No it's being socially aware. Submissive would be getting IOI's and NOT acting on it. A lot of times I will do things to be in her proximity to read her body language. If a chick keeps her distance from me then I'm much less likely to approach her. I'm not gonna chase a chick at the gym with her headphones on as she runs away from guys from one machine to the next. That's just me. My mindset is that I got 10 girls in my phone that are obsessed with me so why would I chase anyone.

@Plinco asked about the gym situation so that's why I gave my insight and how I handle it. If i'm at the grocery store and a chick doesn't move away from me when I pull up next to her in the aisle, then that's a great time to approach. Females are masters of this stuff.

This is just pre work leading up to being mode one that I have found works for me. Like @We_ArE_VeNOM said, I'm lucky enough to get some choosing signals. But... I have had many approaches where I did not... Had some success, but when you have abundance of options you learn to do the most optimal thing for you. You should approach women you like even if they don't give signals, but if you do get signals it only helps.

Dudes try so hard to be dominant and masculine but can't even back it up in the bedroom. Your actions have to be congruent with your words or else she will screen you as a phony. This is why mode one, especially hardcore mode one, isn't for everyone.

@Plinco You don't want to be mode one just to APPEAR masculine and dominant, that actually has to be your essence.

The most important thing is your degree of self assuredness... when being mode one you have to be indifferent to whatever she throws your way... THAT is masculine. THAT is when she will size you up and want to see whether you're really who you say you are.

 

[Plinco]

No it's being socially aware.

I'm not very socially aware. I work at being aware, but interpreting subtle body language has always been a problem for me. In the past I had a large friend and acquaintance circles which made it a lot easier. Today, I have no choice but to cold approach. I believe the solution is to essentially go mode 1.5, direct but not sexually explicit, at least not at first, and approach when I have interest and not even bothering to try to read something that I don't read well anyway.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

I'm not very socially aware. I work at being aware, but interpreting subtle body language has always been a problem for me. In the past I had a large friend and acquaintance circles which made it a lot easier. Today, I have no choice but to cold approach. I believe the solution is to essentially go mode 1.5, direct but not sexually explicit, at least not at first, and approach when I have interest and not even bothering to try to read something that I don't read well anyway.

With repetition everything gets easier. The more women you deal with, the more you learn about them. Practice being present with all people, not just girls you are attracted to. Challenge yourself to have good conversations with people and really be there with them. If you approach a girl and are in your head then you aren't present and girls subconsciously feel that.

 

[Plinco]

With repetition everything gets easier. The more women you deal with, the more you learn about them. Practice being present with all people, not just girls you are attracted to. Challenge yourself to have good conversations with people and really be there with them. If you approach a girl and are in your head then you aren't present and girls subconsciously feel that.

That's excellent advise, and something I would say too, unfortunately in my case and unlike most people, more practice doesn't get me much better. The solution is to just go at it anyway.