"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MO For Foreign Speaking Gals?

bmg

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Just wondering what is the MO for foreign girls?
I run into very many very hot European girls often, but they are the very hardest to talk to. I am starting to think it's embarrasment on their part for not knowing the American language, but they come off as very haughty.
Anyone know of any tips for dealing with the obvious language chasm?
Or is it a lost cause?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ryan01

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This is a problem, if you are trying to build attraction with jokes or use words or phrases that are beyond basic English or are specific to your country, they may not understand.

I once said to a Polish girl I was pulling her leg but she did not quite get what I was saying, so it is probably easier to go for girls that speak your language.

I'm sure there are better methods that would work on girls that don't speak the same language as you though.
 

itishe

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I tried some **** on a foreign girl, most of the time she asked what, or just smiled like I was retarded.
 

boulepiquante

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hot FRENCH chicks

i am FRENCH myself
the broads down here are the same as the U S ones !! very
female and difficult
i can give some useful FRENCH vocabulary TO PICK UP ON THOSE HOT FRENCH HB s
 
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