Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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mmm, lesbian?

nosmirk

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how would you guys react when you find out that a girl youre seeing is/was lesbian?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, i'd want to know first of all whether she was at least bisexual today, otherwise i'd be wasting my time. Assuming so, what do i care; she'd just (also) like the same thing that I do. Its hard to fault that!
 

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no idea if its is or was, cause im not supposed to know.

but she doesnt seem les
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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From my experience I can say the most beautiful women call themselves lesbian, especially women who show off their sexiness not afraid of being seen as a sluty by men, thats typical lesbian. Now if she is jung, a good PUA should be able to change her mind. But think about it: lesbian or bi-women would prefer female men and not alpha males in the standard masculine sense, logically. They generaly love foreplay and tenderness even more than women do anyway.
 
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