"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MMA training and bulking

danro

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So, I've started training Jiu Jitsu at the moment, and it's one hell of a workout. After my first day my entire body was sore for 2 days (ouch). I train 2 days a week, tues. and thurs.

I'm wondering if I should keep lifting while training, or should I wait and just do conditioning and cardio while I learn how to fight, and once I have a handle on it start lifting again. And if I do lift, what days should I. I currently lift 4 days a week doing chest/triceps one day, legs another, shoulders another, and finally back and biceps. I was also wondering what days I should lift, because I want to avoid overtraining. Any suggestions would be helpful.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bible_Belt

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For mma, it is ok to lift, but do light weights and high reps. People I train with lift in sets of 15.

If you spent enough time on the mat doing body weight exercises, you don't really have to lift weights; they are just different ways of achieving the same goal. If you want to fight, you really need to roll regularly for six months or so before you get in there. That will help a lot.
 

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Thanks a lot. Will rolling, doing mat body weight excercises, and lifting at higher reps with less weight help me bulk though? I want to go up a weight class so I can fight in the lightweight division (I'm a little guy :( haha), maybe even welterweight if I can put on a good amount of weight. I guess I should reword my question really. How should I bulk while training MMA and make sure I'm not overtraining?

Thanks a lot Bible_Belt, if you have any mma tips can you give me some? haha.
 

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If your active in the martial art then you'll need to set your training up in cycles based on your season (when you'll be having your fights). Mass training for size is tough to do while actively involved in the activity at 100%, so you'll do that during your off season.
 

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i would wait til you get adjusted to the training before you go back to hitting the weights. i started training in jiu jitsu and muay thai about 7 weeks ago, and i don't plan on going back to the iron til school starts in the august. that being said, if you are trying to bulk, you should NOT be doing higher reps, you should be doing a more powerlifting oriented regime. For martial arts, you want functional strength, not the bs size a bodybuilding workout will give you.

Oh, also, if you are planning on actually fighting, you will eventually want to start training more than twice a week. if you are trying to bulk while doing this, be prepared to eat like an absolute animal. i train 5-6 days per week right now and i am ravenous all the time, it's tough to keep my weight at around 145-150.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MSwrestler

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You want functional muscle for mma, with endurance and elastivity. Do pushups, pullups and body weight workouts, do them fast and as many as you can a set and you will notice your muscle endurance will be amazing. Cardio is very important for mma as well, you have the ability to last.
 
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