"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

MMA Discussion

j0n024

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2007
Messages
1,028
Reaction score
10
Location
Texas
The gym is fun if you keep pushing yourself...I despise fridays cause of Squats but at the same time I LOVE fridays because of squats.

I hope tonight is a good ppv , wish the dragon was going to fight rashad I think instead of rampage but what can you do. I wonder if the axe murderer is going to come back after that embarasing defeat.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

STR8UP

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2002
Messages
6,911
Reaction score
125
So how does one go about choosing a good gym? What do they usually charge? How long does it take before you start to feel like you are accomplishing something?

I'm seriously considering giving this a go.
 

lookyoung

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 21, 2006
Messages
1,303
Reaction score
36
Location
Chicago
STR8UP said:
So how does one go about choosing a good gym? What do they usually charge? How long does it take before you start to feel like you are accomplishing something?

I'm seriously considering giving this a go.

See who the instructors are and were they got there blackbelts from if your looking to do brazilian jiu-jitsu. google there names and you should get some info. If there is a Graciebarra school near you than I recommend them for jiu-jitsu. After about 20 classes your ground game will get much better. You will toy with guys on the street after 4 months at 3 days a week. ( I am not talking about 6"6 265 pound steroid guys and all american football players and wrestlers) I am talking about the general population. Go for it. Bjj is pretty expensive anywere between 80 dollars to 150 a month depending on were you live.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,577
Reaction score
6,350
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
See who the instructors are and were they got there blackbelts from

agreed. That is the most important part. The guy teaching you directly need not be world class, but the guy who gave him his belt should be. I have been impressed by meeting cage fighters who claim to have a bjj blue belt...only to find out later that they ordered the belt over the Internet. Belts are like college degrees in that way. If you tell people you have a certain degree, the first thing they ask is "where from?" With belts, the question is "who gave it to you?"

You have a lot of choices, str8up, good luck:

http://maps.google.com/maps?hl=en&i...DqHGMsap0egF&cd=1&filter=0&oi=lwp_thresh&sa=X
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,577
Reaction score
6,350
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
UFC 98 is tonight

http://www.ufc.com/index.cfm?fa=EventDetail.FightCard&eid=2001

I will be at a local mma event, so I won't get to see it. A guy I know is fighting a former UFC fighter from Israel. He's gonna get creamed; the guy he is fighting is world class, fought Jake Shields last year.

I just watched a few Jake Shield fights - one of them was him beating the founder of my jiu-jitsu school, a former bjj world champ himself. Shields has his game together. I think he is at least a nominee for p4p best in the world right now, especially if he could beat GSP. I am going to try and study his films more - he does a lot of things that I want to get better at - like punching from all of the ground positions and smoothly transitioning between positions. He manages to maintain mount while keeping posture to punch. It's hard to appreciate how difficult things like that are to do.
 

Levex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 31, 2002
Messages
1,084
Reaction score
8
Location
LA
Haha, Rashad got his ass handed to him. Thats what he gets for jumping around like a monkey on PCP before the fight and getting gassed before it all even started.

Now we got a guy with some class holding the belt for a change.
 

piranha45

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2005
Messages
973
Reaction score
38
rashad had no chance of winning regardless of what he did or didn't do, he was out of his league in that matchup.
 

Inquisitus

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2008
Messages
134
Reaction score
1
Bible_Belt said:
http://www.ufc.com/index.cfm?fa=EventDetail.FightCard&eid=2001

I will be at a local mma event, so I won't get to see it. A guy I know is fighting a former UFC fighter from Israel. He's gonna get creamed; the guy he is fighting is world class, fought Jake Shields last year.

I just watched a few Jake Shield fights - one of them was him beating the founder of my jiu-jitsu school, a former bjj world champ himself. Shields has his game together. I think he is at least a nominee for p4p best in the world right now, especially if he could beat GSP. I am going to try and study his films more - he does a lot of things that I want to get better at - like punching from all of the ground positions and smoothly transitioning between positions. He manages to maintain mount while keeping posture to punch. It's hard to appreciate how difficult things like that are to do.
Jake Shields p4p? Hell no! His resume does not deserve P4P. Not saying he sucks, just that he's not proven P4P yet.

I don't even think Machida can claim P4P standings. He needs to show that he can dominate a couple more top 10 fighters before he can be P4P. If he can beat Rampage and Forrest, then he's punched his ticket.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,577
Reaction score
6,350
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
fwiw, I would put Shields behind Fedor, Silva, and GSP at a minimum, as well as probably a few others, like Andrei Arlovski and even Machida, Damian Maia is probably better, too. My p4p nominee list is long.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Inquisitus

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2008
Messages
134
Reaction score
1
Bible_Belt said:
fwiw, I would put Shields behind Fedor, Silva, and GSP at a minimum, as well as probably a few others, like Andrei Arlovski and even Machida, Damian Maia is probably better, too. My p4p nominee list is long.
Then i guess i would have to ask what you're definition of P4P is.

My P4P looks like this;
1. Fedor - the only guys who we're not sure can't beat him are Lesnar, Barnett & Overeem.
2. GSP - cleaned out a very stacked and active division dominantly. Also beat 2 other P4P candidate
3. A. Silva - cleaned out his division dominantly which is a bit weaker than LW & WW. would be above GSP if he beats Forrest in LHW div.
4. Torres - very active and dominantly finishes opponents
5. Penn - only 5 because he's lost in the WW div. But, he has beaten a P4P candidate
6. Matt Hughes - not a fan, but he was so dominant during his heyday & beat a P4P candidate.

I honestly don't think anyone else can be on the P4P list until they amass the record these men have.

I can see potential in Machida but he will have to defend his title a couple of times. People i'd like to see him fight for P4P ranking;

1. Rampage
2. Forrest
3. Shogun
4. Hendo

I think that list is definitive of the top 205-ers.
 

piranha45

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2005
Messages
973
Reaction score
38
Inquisitus I think you tremendously overrate lesnar. Mir is going to snuff lesnar out a 2nd time.
 
Top