"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MM: The M3 Model

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M3 model is the basic structure of the Mystery method which i've been using for about a month now. It is very flexible and you can add your own things to each section. This is how its broken down.

Attract
Comfort
Seduce

You must go through all stages for solid game

Common Mistakes:

Seduce first - You show way to much interest and come off needy, desperate and all those other characteristics.
Comfort First - Nice guy

Attraction skip Comfort and go to Seduce - While get alot of last minute resistance because you didn't build any comfort you might not even get anywhere.

Skip Attract go to Comfort - 2 words nice guy

Attraction and comfort only - End up in Friend zone after awhile.

A1 - Opener - Run an opener until you get to the social hook

A2 - Female to male attraction - Demonstrate High value (DHV) while showing disinterest, until you get some IOIs

A3 - Male to femal Attraction - You try to make her invest into the interaction and you reward her with IOIs

C1 - Conversation - Building some rapport

C2 - Connection - Yall finnally click (should have kissed her by now)

C3 - Intimacy - Making out

S1 - Foreplay -

S2 - Last minute resistance - every girl has LMR just some have more than others

S3 - sex

Takes about 7 hours for a solid game from start to finish. Takes about 4 to 10 hours in Comfort stage.

by time you go from Attraction to Comfort you should have moved her from a different venue atleast once. (different area of the bar or Move across the room to sit down etc)

During Comfort stage you just wait for the hours to pass by mean time you can use a time bridge (Get number and meet at a later time and place) or instant date her. Keep doing that until the 4 to 10 hours are up and then move somewhere close to where your going to get lay her.

Note: Should go for the number around C1 - C2. Also talking on the phone also builds up that comfort.

For example a 4 to 10 hour session could go.

*call in morning*
Me: Hey come hangout with me i'm looking for a present to give my niece. Come pick me up.
*talk for 30mins*
(She meets you at the house)
Me: Hold up forgot something upstairs. Come up real quick i'm going to use bathroom (This is done that way it isn't such a big deal when you bring her back to lay)
Me: Ok lets go
*10 mins* *40 mins alotgether*
*Drive to place while talking 20mins* *1 hour altogether*
Me: Lets go window shopping since i found my niece a gift
*Window shop and have lunch 3 hours* *4 hours altogether*
Me: O look mini golf or O look thats fun lets go play that
*Play whateva your playing for 1 hour* * 5 hours altogether*
*Drive back to video store*
Me: Lets find a good move to watch
*Drive back home takes about 30mins*
*altogther 5 hours 30 mins*
*Watch movie for about 1 hour and 30 mins* * alltogether 7 hours*

LAY!!!!!!

You can get layed way before this but when you first get a kiss decide whether to stop or risk having her as a one night stand. Hope you got a breif description of what M3 model consist of.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cool. I have seen other models and they are pretty much similar.
 
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This is a good post... did you make this up?

attract
comfort
seduce
ill remember this.
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
This is a good post... did you make this up?

attract
comfort
seduce
ill remember this.
MM stands for Mystery Method. M3 method is design by Mystery. You should know who Mystery is.
 

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Was this part of his apprentiship program? I can't remember.... If not, there's a good chance that maybe this isn't allowed to be posted, since it is something you would have to pay for to get the info.

could be wrong, though.

His model is fantastic though
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Was this part of his apprentiship program? I can't remember.... If not, there's a good chance that maybe this isn't allowed to be posted, since it is something you would have to pay for to get the info.

could be wrong, though.

His model is fantastic though
Ya i was thinking about that before i posted it. But if you look around you would find a brief description of this. Which are free lol. But don't worry i'm never go indepth on what i've read and stuff.
 
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