You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That quote is going in my hall of fame.The player with the most numbers has the most rejections. don't ever think players don't get rejected. They get rejected just as much...the only difference is that they ALWAYS get back up.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
KillaPetehog said:Naw man, don't waste your money, dawg.
68 bucks.
Fuk that, man.
Plenty of fellas here can tell you that the DJ bible has helped them plenty...
Spending 68 bucks on a book won't necessarily improve your game.
Look, you only got 7 posts..and I'm assuming you're a new cat. Why don't you read this book right here.
It's free.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
And if THAT book doesn't help you....the Mystery method ain't gonna do SHYT for your game...
cuz the problem ain't the book.
it's you.
So just read the DJ Bible.
Apply it.
you just gotta know a couple rules.
1. Confidence sells. Believe it.
2. Dress well and look your best.
3. Exercise and hang out with people who exercise. Learn from them.
4. Hang out with successful players. you don't learn shyt from reading Mystery Method. you learn more from hanging out with da boys who are players with women. they'll give you pointers. the Saying is true: Tell me who you walk with and I will tell you who you are. Don't hang out with fukin losers.
5. Never believe that a woman is better than you. I don't care what shyt you think in your head. A woman is the SAME as you. She is NOT a goddess. You treat all women the same. Dance with ALL women. don't treat a woman differently just because she's pretty. That mentality is what got you stuck in the first place. Don't be a complete jerk either. Just be confident, be a man, be nice with a little bit of thug in ya.
6. Avoid women with family problems. Avoid women with terrible fathers.
7. Don't overanalyze. Don't ever think, "Oh, does she like me?" "Should I do it?" Fuk that! Go and do it!! Don't be a bytch. Just go for what you want because that bytch WON'T stand there forever.
8. Know how to handle rejection. Brush it off. that will make you stronger. The player with the most numbers has the most rejections. don't ever think players don't get rejected. They get rejected just as much...the only difference is that they ALWAYS get back up...Sooner or later....you'll be saying, "Gotcha bytch!"
9. Always remember...it has to be EQUAL on both sides. A girl has to like you just as much as you like her. Never keep a girl who doesn't want to keep you.
10. Develop your social circle. Popular people are more attractive to women...
11. Stop stressing about women...focus on your own goals and ambitions..and the bytches will come. Women are kinda wierd....focus on your own future and your own ambition and goals and power...and they'll fall for you.. Focus on chasing puzzy and they'll run the hell away.
12. Know the importance of eye contact.
A jerk who attracts women....uses his EYES a certain way. And THOSE eyes attract a CERTAIN woman.
A player who attracts women...uses his EYES a certain way. And THOSE eyes attract a CERTAIN woman.
A "funny" guy who attracts women...uses his EYES a certain way. And THOSE eyes attract a CERTAIN woman.
Try this experiment to see what I'm saying.
1. Try looking at only ONE of the female's eyes whenever you talk to her. See what response you get her.
2. Try looking DIRECTLY between her eyes whnever you talk to her. See what response you get.
3. Try "SMILING" with your eyes whenever you talk to her. See what response you get.
4. NOW try this...to repel women. LOOK at your shoes when you talk to her.
1. When you look at one of her eyes...you appear more playful...
2. When you look directly BETWEEN HER eyes...you appear more threatening...more authoritative.
3. When you "SMILE" with you EYES, you appear WARM.
4. When you look down at the ground...you appear weak.
Isn't it funny how eye contact is?
When people say eye contact is important...they're right. But FEW people KNOW that there are DIFFERENT ways of LOOKING at a girl that ATTRACTS a CERTAIN girl. the Jerk uses his eye contact differently from a player...
rule #13 SMILE.![]()
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I used to think Mad-dogging the camera was a good idea. I used to think Mad-doggin women was good too. Nope. SMile. MUCH better results.
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Rule #14 Act like you know her and she knows you.
Fuk this bullshyt about pickup lines. How do you talk to your friends? You're at ease. You talk about things that make you laugh. you're not trying to impress your friends, right? Do that with her..only add a tinge of sexuality to it.
There's a lot more but go and Peep the DJ Bible.
JUST REMEMBER ONE THING.
MYSTERY METHOD IS NO GOD.
You have the same potential, ability and game as this man..don't worship some fella...develop your OWN game and your own style. Stop worshipping men like this...becuase your game can be more TIGHT than his punk ass. recognize that you don't need this book because you ARE better than this man...Maybe not NOW....but YOU WILL. Make your OWN RULES.
HAVE THAT MENTALITY and you can get any girl you want.
BTW, that Waxlrose guy (the guy above) is a Mystery Method promoter.
Just read his posts.
BTW, have you heard of Limewire?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This is another LukeradronOmega said:The book is aight, I like "how to succeed with women" by Ron Louis and David Copeland more though. It's more internal process and general direction so you can apply thier studd when you have more advanced game also which is nice.
However, MM forum is pretty good.
MM forum>>>>>>>>>>fast seduction. So much easier to navigate