Mixed signals

[777boy]

Hello all....

Been a while since i posted but i need help once again.

K theres this chick i fancied a while back and i asked her out but she said she had a bf.

So i left it at that and we have been keeping in touch by email on and off.

For the last few months we havent been in touch though.

Now shes back in town ( she studies abroad ) and she texted me.Didnt even know she
remebered my no.

So we exchange greetings....and then continue chatting...by chatting i mean texting.

We seem to have a really animated conversation and she seems all flirty and of course
i flirted back.

I told her i was kidding about the flirty stuff though cos i knew she had a bf and was only teasing

She then asked me what i thought of her ie was she pretty etc she wanted an honest opinion

I kinda goofed around and never answered that directly.

I asked her how her bf was etc and then she started this spiel about how her relationship was
based on love, trust and friendship.

So my question is...Is she just looking at me for approval to see if i still fancy her and shes still
attractive or does she want me to ask her out again..

I know this is a dumb a** post but am confused.

The weird thing is im not that into her anymore but since am not with anyone right now
was thinking what the heck....

Laters

 

[FratAndDiddy]

go for it bro, what do you have to lose?

keep teasing her and laying it to her and dont worry about her boyfriend. and dont apologize to her either about comments of her boyfriend. who cares, right?

just be yourself and she may end up wanting to be with you. we know chickies are weird and give out mixed signals, but if you are confident and not worried about what she thinks all the time, it will flow for you .

good luck, relax and give it all !!

 

[scordate]

tease and bust her all you can

AND

never apologize for what you say

dont let her know that you 'really' dont mean it

let her wonder whether you actually mean it or its just as a joke

i heard this analogy somewhere else;
treat her like an obnoxious little sister

go for it

fx when she says that
"her relationship was based on love, trust and friendship"

say something like; ok so thats what he brings into the relationship, but what is YOUR contribution ?

/ Scordate

 

[777boy]

Thnx guys...

Think i overdid it though.

When she told me about her relationship i told her it was great she had such a great one.

Then she started giving me advice about how to go about my relationships cos i told her
about what was going on im my life ( ya ya i know 1st big mistake )

I then went on to apologise to her and said it wasnt right for me to run to her for
advice as she had a bf..( was trying to get her to feel sorry for me ) my 2nd big
mistake.

I told her id stop asking her for help and wouldnt bother her...shucks i have
gone back to my old AFC self...

I NEED HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP

She never replied...that was last night

Now what ??

Cheers

P.s She just texted me n said that 'whatever happened in the past is the past n now we are friends so stop acting like a baby'

WTH does she mean...does she think she put me in the freinds zone ?

 

[FratAndDiddy]

you never got past chapter 1 with this one

never tell a woman what is happening in your life.
quit talking about their boyfriends.

fly yourself to the states so we can slap ya !!

you need basic training bro......and confidence

 

[777boy]

Yup the thought of a slap feels good...im on my way

I NEED ONE

I thought i was progressing but ive lost the plot again

How the hell do i get my confidence back ?