Mixed signals

[HalfAddict]

I met this girl through a friend of mine and im quite attracted to her. She always compliments me saying "im great" im a hottie cutie, she even came up with one of those cute ass nick names chicks give their boyfriends. she gave me her number... all three of them. But everytime I set up a date she cancels on me. Is this some kind of ****ed up test or should I just move on?
She has cancled on me twice in the last month.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Im no expert on mixed signals but
1. the nicknames: She sees you more as a cute friend rather than boyfriend material. When a girl wants it with you they aren't that obvious giving guys silly little nicknames, why? because it would put the ball in your court, it would mean that she is raising the white flag saying you can have her if you want her. Girls want us to win them over, they don't make their intentions obvious.

look at it this way.
guy tells girl shes cute = he wants her, he knows it and she knows it, this is the intention of when a guy says this
girl tells guy hes cute = thinks you're ok, thinks you're nice, but she ain't attracted to you as boyfriend material at the moment. Girls don't go around telling guys they're cute, they don't make their intentions obvious like we do.

2. she canceled twice on you in the last month? this proves my number 1, she sees you as a cute guy but not boyfriend material. Not only that but you lost some of your dignity there. Never let a woman leave you hanging. 1 cancelation is enough but 2? who are you the man or the b1tch? (she is making you look like a b1tch)

 

[HalfAddict]

So basically there's no winning this one?

Should I just tell her whats up or Keep talking like nothing is goin on here.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by HalfAddict
So basically there's no winning this one?

But why would you want to win this one? you should move on, she is making you look like a fool. Don't tell me you think she respects you and is attracted to you, when she cancels on you not once but twice in one month?

Not only that but you shouldn't hang out with her that much anymore. Getting canceled on twice in one month, that is disrespect. She can act as nice as she wants with you, but in her mind you are now a level below her in status and she got a big ego boost I bet.

 

[HalfAddict]

That sucks

 

[t00dumb]

maybe she's one of those attention *****s that says to her other girlfriends... "yeah i have another admirer, he's been trying to call me and setup dates but i shoot him down!".... *****es.

 

[jason86]

Originally posted by t00dumb
maybe she's one of those attention *****s that says to her other girlfriends... "yeah i have another admirer, he's been trying to call me and setup dates but i shoot him down!".... *****es.

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