"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nykid2

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Is she playing hard to get or just not interested

At my job this new girl has been going around telling people in her department that she likes me thinks I'm cute, handsome and is interested in me.She even asked another coworker to come up to me to ask if I had a girl friend. I small talk with her sometimes most days I just say hi how are you.I get her number and a few days later I ask her out on date she declines b ecause she has to do something with her mom.A few days later this guy i knows tries talking to the same girl ask for her number only to realize that she gave him a fake number lol.One day its me her and another coworker sitting in the break room talking.I asked the girl that was interested in me if she had a boy friend she says no.Later on the other coworker who was sitting with us said she's lying she does have a boy friend. Another coworker who found out about her liking me told me the same thing that she does have a boy friend. I hit her up a few more times small text convos she asking how her day is going that's it. So again I asked her if she wanted to hang out and that I was going to do some errands around the city and later on would it be ok if I stopped by ? Just being friendly. She ignores the question by asking a question lol..Ever since the 2nd decline I have giving her space assuming that maybe she does have a boy friend. So for the past week going on two I haven't intiated any convo to her at all or looked in her direction.I caught her a few days ago looking at me smiling so i glanced at her and looked away..But if she does why lie to me and say you don't? And why go around saying your interested but when I initiate contact with you you act distant and not interested? Why give me your number when it is so easily for you to give out a fake number
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Purefilth

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edit into paragraphs.

tl:dr
mixed signals=low interest
 

VladPatton

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Attention whóre. Don't bother. She knows she's good lookin and is fückin with all you dudes. Hath she any interest, she would of made damn sure the number was correct, sent texts, met up, and been on her knees on the first date.

A woman that confuses you is a woman uninterested. Move on.
 
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