"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nykid2

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Is she playing hard to get or just not interested

At my job this new girl has been going around telling people in her department that she likes me thinks I'm cute, handsome and is interested in me.She even asked another coworker to come up to me to ask if I had a girl friend. I small talk with her sometimes most days I just say hi how are you.I get her number and a few days later I ask her out on date she declines b ecause she has to do something with her mom.A few days later this guy i knows tries talking to the same girl ask for her number only to realize that she gave him a fake number lol.One day its me her and another coworker sitting in the break room talking.I asked the girl that was interested in me if she had a boy friend she says no.Later on the other coworker who was sitting with us said she's lying she does have a boy friend. Another coworker who found out about her liking me told me the same thing that she does have a boy friend. I hit her up a few more times small text convos she asking how her day is going that's it. So again I asked her if she wanted to hang out and that I was going to do some errands around the city and later on would it be ok if I stopped by ? Just being friendly. She ignores the question by asking a question lol..Ever since the 2nd decline I have giving her space assuming that maybe she does have a boy friend. So for the past week going on two I haven't intiated any convo to her at all or looked in her direction.I caught her a few days ago looking at me smiling so i glanced at her and looked away..But if she does why lie to me and say you don't? And why go around saying your interested but when I initiate contact with you you act distant and not interested? Why give me your number when it is so easily for you to give out a fake number
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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edit into paragraphs.

tl:dr
mixed signals=low interest
 

VladPatton

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Attention whóre. Don't bother. She knows she's good lookin and is fückin with all you dudes. Hath she any interest, she would of made damn sure the number was correct, sent texts, met up, and been on her knees on the first date.

A woman that confuses you is a woman uninterested. Move on.
 
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