Single4Life
Don Juan
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- Aug 21, 2011
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So this college girl I know for about a year, we are friends, and I always felt she had a thing for me. She copies me, goes out of her way to do nice things for me, flirts, etc... I just took it as friendship/respect for who I am though and left it at that. Saving herself for marriage, christian, sweet, loving but low life experience with men.
well, recently she just came out and gained some courage because she started telling me that I am amazing, that I am the sweetest man she knows, and she began to ask me if I needed anything, and finding excuses to come get me to come hang out with her. I was just myself, acted normally... be cool, etc...no big deal.
Then we had a very sexual conversation, sharing our secret fantasies etc.. and I guess my attraction/desire for her sort of went to the next level. I was always interested in her as a person, but yeah.
So I go to her and tell her straight up, I am only expressing how I feel, I feel attracted to you, etc...
and she goes "I don't want anyone getting attached to me right now"
Since then, I've just continued being myself, I talk to her and let her know I am completely comfortable with sharing how I feel and not have it be weird or affect anything...
Obviously, I have just moved on and won't give her any attention, but why would she send all these signals and then reject me when I make a move? Maybe she thought it was only about sex? Not sure.
well, recently she just came out and gained some courage because she started telling me that I am amazing, that I am the sweetest man she knows, and she began to ask me if I needed anything, and finding excuses to come get me to come hang out with her. I was just myself, acted normally... be cool, etc...no big deal.
Then we had a very sexual conversation, sharing our secret fantasies etc.. and I guess my attraction/desire for her sort of went to the next level. I was always interested in her as a person, but yeah.
So I go to her and tell her straight up, I am only expressing how I feel, I feel attracted to you, etc...
and she goes "I don't want anyone getting attached to me right now"
Since then, I've just continued being myself, I talk to her and let her know I am completely comfortable with sharing how I feel and not have it be weird or affect anything...
Obviously, I have just moved on and won't give her any attention, but why would she send all these signals and then reject me when I make a move? Maybe she thought it was only about sex? Not sure.