"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mixed Signals?

thatdondude

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Hey guys, I've been reading this forum for months, but have only recently signed up since i can't seem to find a topic that relates to mine :kick:

Long story short, I can't seem to figure this girl that I really like out.

I've been hanging out with this girl who I have known many years ago, and have not really met for a few years since we went to different high-schools. We started hanging out in a small group, and gradually, it was just both of us drinking at pubs, one night or two every week.

To be honest, I am pretty bad at reading IOIs and she is not exactly the type that is good at confronting her feelings. I've tried the ****y and funny stuffs but it doesn't seem it work. (I blame it on her conservativeness). I'm a pretty funny guy, so I always end up cracking her up with just simple teasing. On some occasions she would shy away when i kino her hands and arms, and on some, not. On one occasion, out of the blue, she mentioned that I do not act like her exboyfriend in any way. What the heck does that even mean. :cuss:

I need some advices, whether if I should continue throwing moves at her, or something else, alternatives that have not yet crossed my mind.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NorwegianDJ

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You're probably giving her mixed signals too. C&F is more of something you are and develop, not something you fake.

Show more intent, it wont be worth it to go around and wonder.
 

jerrykemic99

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Hi,I am jerry kemic.I am a new user of this community.I will be happy if everyone of this forum can help me by discussing many important Topics.
 

mr_guido

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Dude, if you want to be impressive, just be cool, calm, collective, and best of all, be yourself. That's what girls (all the normal ones, that is) want to see, and that way they'll be able to see who you really are, what you're really like, and hopefully fall in love with that new guy they see in you.
 
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