"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mixed Signals?

thatdondude

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Hey guys, I've been reading this forum for months, but have only recently signed up since i can't seem to find a topic that relates to mine :kick:

Long story short, I can't seem to figure this girl that I really like out.

I've been hanging out with this girl who I have known many years ago, and have not really met for a few years since we went to different high-schools. We started hanging out in a small group, and gradually, it was just both of us drinking at pubs, one night or two every week.

To be honest, I am pretty bad at reading IOIs and she is not exactly the type that is good at confronting her feelings. I've tried the ****y and funny stuffs but it doesn't seem it work. (I blame it on her conservativeness). I'm a pretty funny guy, so I always end up cracking her up with just simple teasing. On some occasions she would shy away when i kino her hands and arms, and on some, not. On one occasion, out of the blue, she mentioned that I do not act like her exboyfriend in any way. What the heck does that even mean. :cuss:

I need some advices, whether if I should continue throwing moves at her, or something else, alternatives that have not yet crossed my mind.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NorwegianDJ

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You're probably giving her mixed signals too. C&F is more of something you are and develop, not something you fake.

Show more intent, it wont be worth it to go around and wonder.
 

jerrykemic99

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Hi,I am jerry kemic.I am a new user of this community.I will be happy if everyone of this forum can help me by discussing many important Topics.
 

mr_guido

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Dude, if you want to be impressive, just be cool, calm, collective, and best of all, be yourself. That's what girls (all the normal ones, that is) want to see, and that way they'll be able to see who you really are, what you're really like, and hopefully fall in love with that new guy they see in you.
 
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