For what it matters, I'm white and I think this girl is Japenese.
I met this girl in one of my classes and suggested we grab some coffee later in the week and I got her number. She asked for mine also.
So I call once to set up the date, but her battery was dying, she said she would call me back that night but she didn't. I called her the next day and she didn't answer but then called me back 2 seconds after I hung up. I tried to set up something for Saturday afternoon but she already had plans but said she would get back to me when she knew her schedule.
Here is where the mixed signals come in. In class, she will not come approach me to talk. But, if I go over to talk to her she seems happy and interested. Also, if she wasn't interested I don't think she would have called me back that one night either.
So today I asked if we are going to go out this week and she said she is busy all week so I just told her maybe we can go sometime when she isn't so busy and left.
So, basically I am leaving the ball in her court and moving on, but am I missing something obvious in how she likes it when I approach? I get some GO signals, like her askin for my number too, her actually calling me back instead of blowing me off, and the fact that she seems to have a good time when we chat after class.
Should I leave it as is, or try a new approach at it?
And of course, jakethasnake your input is appreciated...
I met this girl in one of my classes and suggested we grab some coffee later in the week and I got her number. She asked for mine also.
So I call once to set up the date, but her battery was dying, she said she would call me back that night but she didn't. I called her the next day and she didn't answer but then called me back 2 seconds after I hung up. I tried to set up something for Saturday afternoon but she already had plans but said she would get back to me when she knew her schedule.
Here is where the mixed signals come in. In class, she will not come approach me to talk. But, if I go over to talk to her she seems happy and interested. Also, if she wasn't interested I don't think she would have called me back that one night either.
So today I asked if we are going to go out this week and she said she is busy all week so I just told her maybe we can go sometime when she isn't so busy and left.
So, basically I am leaving the ball in her court and moving on, but am I missing something obvious in how she likes it when I approach? I get some GO signals, like her askin for my number too, her actually calling me back instead of blowing me off, and the fact that she seems to have a good time when we chat after class.
Should I leave it as is, or try a new approach at it?
And of course, jakethasnake your input is appreciated...