"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mixed signal girl update, need advice bro'skis

TheGambino

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This is a crazy(yap.. abused by her nephew) chick(HB9, looks like shakira) I posted about earlier sending me a lot of mixed signals from the start.

After she said maybe several times to my running suggest I called her yesterday. Once earlier I flaked on a actual appointment to go running last minute, didnt do it on purpose and she knows that.

We had an hour convo on the phone I called her up. She was laughing half the time and mentioned that her stumach hurt of laughing. I asked her things like what are your dreams and then told her a story about me and her in the dream which she loved. She was testing me the whole time asking what do you think of this and that and I kept it light and teasing. She even asked about marriage (shes a church girl) what I think about that and stuff. I made her laugh all the time and showed sexual interest(asking what she was wearing..) she replied okay too it. Everytime (three times) I tried to hang up and quit the convo coz I was tired and she said no please dont hang up im awake and entertaining me telling what she was doing.

Alright big + with this mixed signal girl.

She SAYS she wants to go on a date.

She also asks jealous questions when I mention a girl. Example: asked her to do a favor for me (i like photographing) i said i already asked another girl and she was a bit upset and saying another girl? okay? like that..

She was asking a lot questions btw and then out of the blue: Not that im interested in you but I want to know what you think of .. (she said something like that lol?)

Problems: She mentioned a week ago the man should chase the girl.

She never initiates contact, the phone call was 2 days ago and 1 day of silence, from that phone call I didnt text or call her and she didnt contact me.

what do you guys think? Set enough bait to back off ? or iniate contact again like always or just ghost even if it takes weeks, I could bump intoo her at the bus station I see her a lot there so 100% that im going to see her any soon anyway.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not many plates to spin in this cold crappy city..

nah im good I just want to F*ck her
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Seriously, I have no patience for posters like Gambino.

I've seen you post on this forum for weeks if not months. You're given great advice. You have access to the DJ Bible, Book of Pook, etc... yet you continue to make the same fundamental mistakes over and over again.

Make as many mistakes as you want and post about them here, that's how we learn, but if you're going to outright ignore all of the advice you're given on here then you're just wasting people's time.

We reply to your posts because we want to help you, because we've all been where you are. But you should know by now not to spend an hour on the phone with a girl. You should know that mixed signals = low interest = next.

TheGambino said:
Everytime (three times) I tried to hang up and quit the convo coz I was tired and she said no please dont hang up im awake and entertaining me telling what she was doing.
Do you want to be her lover or her clown? Think about that.
 
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