Mix pleasure and pain

[Charm Artist]

In the midst of a seduction, remember the seduced should never feel that the relationship is going at an upward angle where she feels nothing but happiness and joy. At first this seems exciting because she's getting what she wants from a man and she feels appreciated. But in the long run, this backfires horrendously she will soon be bored and tired of you because there's no change, no difference. All she feels is happiness, which most woman want but what they don't tell us or are afraid to tell us is that they want to feel somethin else also. Pain, sadness, anger, depression, hurt, confusion, anxiety, whichever it is, make them feel. Any emotion other than happiness, make them know that it exists. But you must be careful with it though, the moment you stump her, bring her back up. Quickly follow the lows with a high. There's a saying, "The lower the lows, the higher the highs" A great example is when a couple breaks up for a day, then reconciles. The relationship becomes much stronger because that bit of loneliness creeps in then a bolt of unhappiness and confusion is cured by happiness. A seducer is not merciful and never timid. Master your emotions, don't be such a narcissist that you think just because you feel you need comforting, your mate must also need comforting.

Mix pleasure and pain, you will keep her off her heels.



WARNING: If you're mate just previously gotten out of a hurtful relationship, it's best to lay low on pain. And concentrate on pleasure. Showing her pain then will only bring up a resistance towards you that may take awhile to bring down.

Good luck!



Charm ARtist