Mistress and Wife

[Desdinova]

A man of honor is a man of his word. If you don't believe that, I don't know why anyone would even want to do business with you. Why would you enter into an exclusive relationship if you have no intent of being exclusive?

I honestly do believe that most men enter into marriage because they genuinely love the woman. However, I believe that women don't always do the same.

Would a woman get married to have children? Would a woman get married because her value is declining? Would she do it because her family keeps asking her "when are you going to get married?" Would a woman do it for money? I'll bet you could answer yes to all of these. Now, would a man get married for any of the above reasons? It doesn't seem logical that he would unless he's a major pushover, and we all know how attracted women are to pushovers.

Now, take a woman who got married for one of the reasons above. After she achieves the goal of getting married for whatever reason besides love, what will she do afterwards? Is she going to devote her time, energy and body to a man she doesn't love? Probably not. The man is going to be left in the dark as to why his wife is either absent or miserable.

Should the man be honorable to a woman who used marriage to get what she wanted?

If that marriage license is signed for any reason but love, the entire marriage becomes a complicated disaster.