Huge principle from most religions including Christianity right here.
Forgiveness.
But don't get hung up by the religious aspect. It's a very basic part of reality. We're going to make mistakes, guaranteed. but does it mean the end of a relationship with a girl? Oh hell no. You need forgiveness. Firstly for yourself from yourself, and sometimes from her.
Just like hanging with your boys, when a mistake hits, you don't give up, you pick up the mistake, make up for it, and move forward to keep making better memories. So if you've got a good start with a girl and screw up a bit, don't beat yourself up, dust yourself off and push on making good choices. It'll be water under the bridge before you know it.
If it's a big enough mistake you will need to apologize. It if kills the relationship; move on and don't do it again in your next relationship. At least by apologizing you've shown that you recognize you f*d up and are willing to grow to avoid the same mistakes in the future. That's actually a turn on for most women. Asking for forgiveness is 100x more powerful than the actual mistake. Sadly, its what keeps most people in abusive relationships. So use it sparingly and wisely.
Otherwise, take that pacifier outta yer mouth, uncurl yourself from the floor, stand up, dust off and move onward soldier!! Forgive yourself and get your game back on. She likes you, that's why she was talking to you in the first place! I used to spend a lot of time beating myself up and apologizing for the small things. It sucked. Don't do it!
And if you find yourself in a position where you need to apologize to her, well sh! man, you're a human. That means you make mistakes. If she's worth your time she knows that. And if she can't handle that bit of reality by forgiving you, she's what we call a bullet. Dodging bullets is a good thing. Don't call her anymore.. that's groveling. DJ's do not grovel.
Go on playa, brush your shoulder off. . .
Forgiveness.
But don't get hung up by the religious aspect. It's a very basic part of reality. We're going to make mistakes, guaranteed. but does it mean the end of a relationship with a girl? Oh hell no. You need forgiveness. Firstly for yourself from yourself, and sometimes from her.
Just like hanging with your boys, when a mistake hits, you don't give up, you pick up the mistake, make up for it, and move forward to keep making better memories. So if you've got a good start with a girl and screw up a bit, don't beat yourself up, dust yourself off and push on making good choices. It'll be water under the bridge before you know it.
If it's a big enough mistake you will need to apologize. It if kills the relationship; move on and don't do it again in your next relationship. At least by apologizing you've shown that you recognize you f*d up and are willing to grow to avoid the same mistakes in the future. That's actually a turn on for most women. Asking for forgiveness is 100x more powerful than the actual mistake. Sadly, its what keeps most people in abusive relationships. So use it sparingly and wisely.
Otherwise, take that pacifier outta yer mouth, uncurl yourself from the floor, stand up, dust off and move onward soldier!! Forgive yourself and get your game back on. She likes you, that's why she was talking to you in the first place! I used to spend a lot of time beating myself up and apologizing for the small things. It sucked. Don't do it!
And if you find yourself in a position where you need to apologize to her, well sh! man, you're a human. That means you make mistakes. If she's worth your time she knows that. And if she can't handle that bit of reality by forgiving you, she's what we call a bullet. Dodging bullets is a good thing. Don't call her anymore.. that's groveling. DJ's do not grovel.
Go on playa, brush your shoulder off. . .
