NOW THE MAJORITY OF THESE POINTS PERTAIN TO THE EARLY STAGES OF DATING SOMEONE..........although history has taught us wuss behavior is un-effected by time.
1) HOLDING A RADIO OVER YOUR HEAD BLASTING “IN YOUR EYES”
-if you pulled this stunt on a chic today, odds are you won’t be getting a second date. You are more likely to be cited for disturbing the peace or trust passing.
2) SLIPPING A LOVE NOTE UNDER HER DOOR OR ON HER CAR.
-this creeps women out big time, now you given her your finger prints and evidence that you are a psycho.
3) SURPRISING HER-unannounced visits at work or a surprise lunch date, ‘cause you just happened to be in the neighborhood may seem nice to you. Do them too early and most will see it as a red flag indicator to a potential stalker an entertain the idea of getting a restraining order.
4) CALLING/TEXTING ALL THE TIME-dude get a life, maybe she is not home yet from shopping, hanging with her friends, etc. Leaving two messages or calling and hanging up more than once screams desperation and loneliness. She has caller ID or she might sense it’s you….you just made her mind up for her about dating you, NEXT.
5) LONG EMAILS/LOVE LETTERS/GIFTS-guy get a grip, it’s only been a few dates. By writing a novel/making her a love CD...... professing your instant fondness towards her, you snuff out all the mystery and challenge. It also reveals indicators of some deep emotional issues. Only fools rush in and the faster you fall in, the quicker you fall out.
6) EXCLUSIVE-being committed to just one chic or to stop casual dating and focus all your attention on one specific lady is like driving a wedge between you two. By dating more than one person it shows that you are the prize to win over, makes you appear more attractive and that you have a life outside of her. There’s a time frame for becoming a couple, some call it marriage. Babes appreciate independence in a person. AVOID ONE-I-TIS !
7) REVEALING TOO MUCH-informing a babe you were incarcerated for fraud, have trouble holding your liquor, hate kids or pets, or make 7 bucks an hour does not go over very well……… unless you have super model looks with 6 pack abs. Leave a little mystery, does she need to know every mistake, fault you posses. It’s all in your past.
8) HITTING ON A BABE WHEN SHE is in a HURRY-If a babe is pre-occupied or appears to be in a rush, the last thing she is thinking about is flirting. Trying to pick up a chic in under 30 seconds is extremely tuff. “Hey baby how about hooking me up with your digits” smells of desperation. If a girl falls for that line that quick she is not worth your time. I suppose the FALSE TIME CONSTRAINT can work if it’s smooth enough.
9) EXCESSIVE GENERIC COMPLIMENTS-any time you start off with a compliment it tips the Prizability scale in her favor. DLV is a tricky thing to recover from, so just enhance it or avoid doing it in the first place. Not all women react to compliments the same way and when you just spew too many compliments it get old fast. Saying wow you are hot........may get you some initial interest but SPECIFIC compliments give you an advantage of those other AFC's.
10) GIMMICKS/ROUTINES/PICKUP LINES-ya they do work from time to time but true masters sarge without the safety net. Naturals do this from day one, the rest of us should strive to be a natural.
1) HOLDING A RADIO OVER YOUR HEAD BLASTING “IN YOUR EYES”
-if you pulled this stunt on a chic today, odds are you won’t be getting a second date. You are more likely to be cited for disturbing the peace or trust passing.
2) SLIPPING A LOVE NOTE UNDER HER DOOR OR ON HER CAR.
-this creeps women out big time, now you given her your finger prints and evidence that you are a psycho.
3) SURPRISING HER-unannounced visits at work or a surprise lunch date, ‘cause you just happened to be in the neighborhood may seem nice to you. Do them too early and most will see it as a red flag indicator to a potential stalker an entertain the idea of getting a restraining order.
4) CALLING/TEXTING ALL THE TIME-dude get a life, maybe she is not home yet from shopping, hanging with her friends, etc. Leaving two messages or calling and hanging up more than once screams desperation and loneliness. She has caller ID or she might sense it’s you….you just made her mind up for her about dating you, NEXT.
5) LONG EMAILS/LOVE LETTERS/GIFTS-guy get a grip, it’s only been a few dates. By writing a novel/making her a love CD...... professing your instant fondness towards her, you snuff out all the mystery and challenge. It also reveals indicators of some deep emotional issues. Only fools rush in and the faster you fall in, the quicker you fall out.
6) EXCLUSIVE-being committed to just one chic or to stop casual dating and focus all your attention on one specific lady is like driving a wedge between you two. By dating more than one person it shows that you are the prize to win over, makes you appear more attractive and that you have a life outside of her. There’s a time frame for becoming a couple, some call it marriage. Babes appreciate independence in a person. AVOID ONE-I-TIS !
7) REVEALING TOO MUCH-informing a babe you were incarcerated for fraud, have trouble holding your liquor, hate kids or pets, or make 7 bucks an hour does not go over very well……… unless you have super model looks with 6 pack abs. Leave a little mystery, does she need to know every mistake, fault you posses. It’s all in your past.
8) HITTING ON A BABE WHEN SHE is in a HURRY-If a babe is pre-occupied or appears to be in a rush, the last thing she is thinking about is flirting. Trying to pick up a chic in under 30 seconds is extremely tuff. “Hey baby how about hooking me up with your digits” smells of desperation. If a girl falls for that line that quick she is not worth your time. I suppose the FALSE TIME CONSTRAINT can work if it’s smooth enough.
9) EXCESSIVE GENERIC COMPLIMENTS-any time you start off with a compliment it tips the Prizability scale in her favor. DLV is a tricky thing to recover from, so just enhance it or avoid doing it in the first place. Not all women react to compliments the same way and when you just spew too many compliments it get old fast. Saying wow you are hot........may get you some initial interest but SPECIFIC compliments give you an advantage of those other AFC's.
10) GIMMICKS/ROUTINES/PICKUP LINES-ya they do work from time to time but true masters sarge without the safety net. Naturals do this from day one, the rest of us should strive to be a natural.
