Met a girl 8 months ago. First 6 months went really good. I guess we went fast, I started to see her 5 to 6 days a week sleeping over her place. Because I have a roomate, we chose to spend most of the nights at her place.
5 months in, we traveled back to my country for holiday, we spent 1 month there, sleeping together every day. When we returned back home to our country, she hired me and we started working together as she was my supervisor.
At this point we were spending a lot of time together 5 to 6 days a week at home and a lot of time together at work.
I failed to recognize this wasn't healthy for a 6 month relationship. She started acting bitvhy , talking to me loud asking for me to spend more time alone at my own place. I didn't listen to her and we continue to see each other daily and sleeping together daily.
She was cooking me dinner, lunch to take to work, breakfast, washing my working clothes daily, and she also has a daughter to take care of. I hadn't got my first salary yet so I didn't help much with money and she started saying she didn't have much left. She literally exploded emotionally suffocated and smothered.
I failed to recognize that at this point I should back off, spend more days at my place and give her some room to breath.
One night at her place, because we weren't having so much sex anymore, she was closing herself emotionally with all this stress at home, work, cooking for me etc and also was going through some health issues, some endoscopy thing about some cancer check up .. We had an argument big big one, I shouted at her and pushed her, she took this as domestic violence and kicked me out of the house. She asked for space to think if she wanted to continue the relationship.
Unfortunately, and working together, I couldn't give the space, I called her 5 days in row and on the 6th day I showed up at her place to talk, she go scared, freaked out and didn't open the door. When she finally did, she gave me all my clothes and said it was over.
I spent 3 weeks or so calling, asking her to give us a chance, but it was too late. By the end of the 3rd week I was blocked everywhere except emails.
I'm now 5 days No Contact , we broke up a month ago.
Looking back I know it was a big mistake to join her company, work with her, her being my supervisor. We spent too much time together.
Now, she wants nothing to do with me, she is scared of me because I chased her for 3 to 4 weeks calling and texting her and showed up at her place to talk unannounced.
It's done?
5 months in, we traveled back to my country for holiday, we spent 1 month there, sleeping together every day. When we returned back home to our country, she hired me and we started working together as she was my supervisor.
At this point we were spending a lot of time together 5 to 6 days a week at home and a lot of time together at work.
I failed to recognize this wasn't healthy for a 6 month relationship. She started acting bitvhy , talking to me loud asking for me to spend more time alone at my own place. I didn't listen to her and we continue to see each other daily and sleeping together daily.
She was cooking me dinner, lunch to take to work, breakfast, washing my working clothes daily, and she also has a daughter to take care of. I hadn't got my first salary yet so I didn't help much with money and she started saying she didn't have much left. She literally exploded emotionally suffocated and smothered.
I failed to recognize that at this point I should back off, spend more days at my place and give her some room to breath.
One night at her place, because we weren't having so much sex anymore, she was closing herself emotionally with all this stress at home, work, cooking for me etc and also was going through some health issues, some endoscopy thing about some cancer check up .. We had an argument big big one, I shouted at her and pushed her, she took this as domestic violence and kicked me out of the house. She asked for space to think if she wanted to continue the relationship.
Unfortunately, and working together, I couldn't give the space, I called her 5 days in row and on the 6th day I showed up at her place to talk, she go scared, freaked out and didn't open the door. When she finally did, she gave me all my clothes and said it was over.
I spent 3 weeks or so calling, asking her to give us a chance, but it was too late. By the end of the 3rd week I was blocked everywhere except emails.
I'm now 5 days No Contact , we broke up a month ago.
Looking back I know it was a big mistake to join her company, work with her, her being my supervisor. We spent too much time together.
Now, she wants nothing to do with me, she is scared of me because I chased her for 3 to 4 weeks calling and texting her and showed up at her place to talk unannounced.
It's done?
