"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mission: Intensive Bootcamp

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There are a few people in this community that I've known that took a 30 day approach challenge and at the end they were getting impressive improvements. I'm talking about going out and approaching no matter what. You could be sick you could've woke up late, or even have a stomach ache, you still go out that day and approach. So I'm about to take this commitment in one week as this week is going to be hell for me so won't be able to focus on it yet.

Another thing that I've seen in the community that was recommended was to Plow through and just get all that experience under my belt so for now on for every set the following should occur.

1. Only eject if you've got a specific blow out (Walks away, Real angry, Curses you out)
2. Ask for # in every set (In the end it helps because if she does give you a # you can practice some phone game)
3. Keep #s and use the UGs to practice phone game
4. Try to go for the kiss in all sets that has a decent looking chick that you wouldn't mind kissing
5. Cut space and Kino early
6. Keep on moving every set forward and not backwards

Always approach any decent looking chicks and above. Keep on plowing through all the awkwardness and fuvkups and keep on going until she really doesn't want you there at all.

You must approach atleast 5 women a day and do it for 1-12 months no matter what. Everyone that have done this drastically changed I know it may be hard to start but I'm giving you alot of time to read up on certain parts you feel weak in that way you don't go in there blindly. This will start on Nov 27.

I'm in for sure but is anyone else ready? Are you willing to go way out of your comfort zone? How bad do you want to acheive this if you really want to change the way you are now then you'd do it to? No matter what there is no backing out if you are joining this you are saying you will stick to this and go through all the pain and pleasure.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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While I haven't had much time to do my actually bootcamp, I still approached as much as I could. Other parts of my life is getting messed up right now and needs to be improved, that is why I haven't started the actually bootcamp. I'm stil approaching though but not as much as I want to. Been about 2 or 3 weeks so far that I've been having problems in my life.

Anyway can't fully remember everything but all I know is I've improved more last week than ever before. Like right now I'm so confident that I don't even feel approach anxiety. (I feel it very lightly under the surface) I

I'm not sure if I've got more alpha or something but every set that I open opens. I notice girls are giving me Eye contact many times. I also been getting opened by girls about once or twice a week. My voice is outstanding.

So let me try and give the highlights of the past week. (The week before wasn't much but will include what happened on thanksgiving.)

- Thanksgiving day hanged out with my cousin and his friend, listening to them talk about girls. They start breaking down to me how great college life is and how many girls there is that I can get. I go downstairs to use cousin's computer but before I can even get on two of my cousin's family members come downstairs. (There not related to me)

Some how I sense high attraction from one of the hbs. (Great body hb8) Were both looking at each other. I talk to both of them for about 2 hours meanwhile my brother and little cousin are laughing at my comments and the questions there asking. Hbhotbod Buying temperature is high and she is wondering if were cousin's or not. She isn't sure so she keeps on **** testing. (Little does she know she is like 22 I'm just about to turn 18) Right before she goes back upstairs she puts on her high heel boots and bends her ass right infront of me and I look and she looks back to make sure I'm looking at her ass. She was loving that I loooked. It was fun just vibing and having fun.

- Met 3 hbs in subway, one indian, blond, and mexican. My target was the blond, her eyes are a 10. (Sexiest eyes I've ever seen) Friends are hanging out late and there thinking of approaching the hbs, they both want the indian girl, I tell them I don't care so longs I get the blond. They go on lunch break and my friend wants me to approach the blond, then he sees the 2 other hbs going to sit and tells me forget it. But I love the situation I tell him I'm going in he is surprised that I'm going.

I go in...
Snow: Hey guys
Blond: *wierd look* what is this?
Snow: *I ignore her **** test* Wow! are you writing a love letter
Blond: :) No its a letter to my girlfriend, she is going through some **** blah blah...
Snow: *Reading some of the letter in girly voice*
All 3 HBs: hahaha
Snow: Hey what's you guys fav sandwich
hbindian: blah
Blond: I eat anything
Snow: O really...anything
Snow: *I face hbmexican* That sandwich looks better than mines and tasty you have to make me that the next time I come.
Mexican: Ok
*I take a seat and vibe for about 3 mins*
Friends: Yo lets go
*I say bye and eject*

I know I'd see them again. An I got a good enough amount of kino when I was in set. Was and felt real dominant.

- Met 5 new girls in my gym all of them have some huge breast. I pick the one with the cutest face. (Hb7.5) I see hb7.5 not going up to work out.

Snow: Hey why aren't you upstairs your trying to hide
Hb7.5: I left my cloth at home
Snow: No problem come with me to my lock I have a nice yellow thong you can wear
Hb7.5: haha I don't think you could wear a thong for gym
Snow: Sure you can come on *Start holding her leg as if I'm trying to pull her*

Later I see her again vibe for a bit and venue change to a basketball game nearby. I'm vibing and were real close together. (2nd time we ever met) I'm joking around building attraction getting her in state. Friend keeps talking about her huge breast and how thats the only reason why he is talking to her. He is also trying to get with the girl in front of him. I'm a little annoyed that he is doing this but it doens't affect me. At half time I venue change her to subway where I know I can gain some social proof from the previous 3hbs.

I say hello and get my special from the hbmexican. (This is the second time I had it, don't remember what happened first time) I also don't say much to hbblond as I just want to social proof myself to the hb7.5 I was with and then social proof hbblond from hb7.5. So I'm there telling her to try the peppers and she says no at first. No big, get her laughing and giggling again tell her to do it and she does it. Burns her mouth, hits me, were playing around. Music comes on I tell her lets dance, she doesn't want to. Friend meets up and she loses state. We walk arm in arm to the train station. Friend takes girl by him and there talking no biggie. Train comes I get split from my friends and end up all the way on other side. I'm just looking at people and then notice a hbbigbreast next to me and I get hit off guard because I didn't notice her. She is about to get off so I approach directly telling her if she didn't have to get off I would've talked to her and that I didn't know she was sexy.

- Two more times went to subway and got hbmexican special. Then finnally one day I speak to hblond and she is happy I'm speaking to her.

Blond: Hey want your girlfriend to hook you up
Snow: NA I want you:)
*I start vibing with hbindian while pumping Hbblond Buying temperature, hbindian then asks me about my sandwich*
Snow: You should try it its great
Indian: Nope not me its too hot
Snow: Not at all both of yall should try it
Blond: I'll try it, I'll try it right now
Snow: Ok
(Thinking she would just take a big bite of my sandwich which she looked like she was going to do but started to lose state when she notice her manager)
Blond: I can't cause of *Motioning to her manager*
Snow: Ok I'll put it by the table then you come over and take some
Blond: Ok
*I go and set it up*
Blond: Damn I can't my manager here just cut piece (Line was crowded too)
(Thinking she wouldn't come because she was losing state because of her manager I start to build some attraction)
Snow:...
Blond: haha
Snow: Fuk the manager just run over real quick
(She comes over and ripes off the piece and then runs back to go take more orders. If her manager wasn't there she would've bit it and we would've talked some more. I'm going to go for a kiss next time I get there when she is on lunch break.)
 

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More highlights

- Girl opens me and **** tests me hard. I pass the **** test and joke with her and were just having a good time. Her friend was wondering how come she just said that to me out of no where. My friend who seen this gets mad because I never tried to do much with her besides talking.

- Started to talk to a security guard and joke around with her about how I'm her sgt and she is my assitant. This gives me huge social proff because now she tells everyone I'm her sgt.

-Girl bumps into me on food line I act like I'm about to fall, then I look at my friend "Gat damn she is strong" then squeeze her muscles. She is cracking up. She realizes she skipped me and I say "Wow first she beats me up and then cuts in front of me, such a bad girl." There cracking up, I then eject because a friend called me.

- Get this girl to buy me food

- This aggressive girl is kinoing me and then we end up walking arm in arm and just vibing

- Some girl's bf catch me talking to her and he stands there to watch her hug me goodbye. I should've took her number.

- Gamed two freshmen in school, I was acting like security and telling them get out of the halls

- 3 hbs have a quick discussion about sex and how long a will I wait for sex. I told them 1 week and gave them my reason, they loved my veiw and thought it was good but I'm like the only guy out of many that think like that. (I basically said things based on community things. such as not being a judgmental, sex not a big deal, sex happens quick but the girl doesn't want to be thought of as a slut)

- Hb puts some of her makeup on me and I walk around with it on. Friends call me gay lol.

- Stop this young hb9 teacher and started gaming hard. This lady is so sexy and her skin is so smooth. Attraction always hits way back to rockbottom because everytime she sees me its usually in the frame of her being the teacher and me the student. I always have to build attraction real high so she can get out of the frame of student/teacher and just see me as a regular guy who she could've met at a club. Got some great kino in and she was also grabing me because I was roleplaying with her that were going to steal from off another teachers bulletin. An then frame it as her the lookout girl and me the robber. I teacher her some quick fighting moves (Kino) just in case anyone comes to fight her.

- Meet a hb8.5 big breast, I bust on her about many things. Qualify her, make her show me her dance moves, attraction going up. Friends come in and kills attraction. She wants to leave but I pump attraction and my other friend tells her to come right after I pump her state and she comes back.

- Almost kissed this one girl but I didn't want to because we were in class and that teacher always gets pissed because I'm always walking around talking to people.

- Girl I barely talk to comes and hugs me while her friend throws her coat over me.

So far even though I haven't started the actually bootcamp I'm still having fun and still improving. I feel so much more confident and it shows. Girls are constantly looking at me now and I'm loving the energy. My kino is actually natural now, usually kino within 30seconds and usually cutting space quickly.
 

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I'm seeing a huge hole in my game lately. I went heavy on inner game .(RSD has best inner game by far) The thing is that my inner game is getting solid but I'm forgeting about the gameplan. It's like as soon as I leave the house I forget everything that has to do with outer game. If I was in state 24/7 I wouldn't need a gameplan but I'm not always in state. So sometimes my sets don't go no where. I can open and get attraction fast but the way my mind is, it ends up not even making the set go anywhere.

This week I had more problems then last week and school is killing me right now. Really nothing much to post this week because I haven't actually started the bootcamp that I had in mind yet due to school problems. So for now I just approach here and there.

This week was so crappy for me that I barely remember much that has happened, but I do know for sure I've been gaming girls who have BFs. The funny thing is I knew they did but my mind wasn't allowing me to stop talking to them and I'd just keep getting attraction.

HbDD
One girl I approached I find out she is real dominate and she knows a few people in my social circle. This girl has a bf but I'm not really aware of it. I'm there getting attraction as usual and she starts doing 90/10 rule on me. I actually cut her thread and steered the conversation where I wanted. She would constantly go back to talking about her bf being gay, wierd, freak, etc. She is there rubbing her breast on me, her legs are rubbing me, etc. I notice a kid who knows her bf is looking our way so I don't even bother escalating. I then realize that she actually was high. That is why she was talking so much and cracking jokes with me so much. I actually liked how she acts when high, her sense of humor is just so on and she had me laughing.

Next day see her again but this time she is talking to some of my friends. I tell her she needs a spanking and my friend tells me she is the dominate girl in relationships every bf she had she was basically the man running sh1t. (From his comments it did sound that way) I'm loving it because I know if I go aggressive on her she will love it because no one has done it to her before. So later on she says something and hits me and I just go caveman for like 10 seconds. An from her face you can tell she was surprised, turned on, and stunned. Not sure if she said this on purpose or was in some sort of trance because she quickly said "wow that mad me horny." and then started talking again as if she never said that. Later on found out she has a bf so its a no go.

- Another chick that I used to talk to off and on had sat by me. Usually when I used to so see her I'd pump buying temperature, escalate and leave. If she was cold to me from the start I'd just do a takeaway and if she trys for rapport I'd vibe for a bit.

Today she offers me some snack. I took a little piece and then put it by her mouth. Now I wasn't expecting this but she pulled back at first. No problem, but then she realizes I bit it and she smiles and I put it by her again and she bites it and my finger lol. I then realize she has a bf and I decide not to bother escalating. (She also glossed up her lips because she thought I was going to kiss her. I was doing that triangular gazing after she ate the snack, so she thought I was going to keep escalating but I found out about her bf.)

There were a few blowouts that were funny. I think sometimes I get reactive when they don't speak but I usually notice that I'm doing that and end up talking more.
 

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School has got even worst, my mother had to come up twice this week and got a phone call. This whole December doesn't look good so I am assuming the real bootcamp will start Jan, but I'm still doing approaches here and there.

Can't remember too much but I have a afc friend who is trying to talk to this girl. My AFC friend is a Virgin, so me and my friends are trying to help him get laid. The thing is there is this new hb I met that he knows and I figured he was trying to talk to her. But his game is just so horrible that she said to one of my friends "He is too nice I see him as a little brother." I try not to cokblock and let him try to fuvk.

Highlights
- Some HB opens one of my friend and she asks for piece of my friends food. I quickly start try to pump BT and then motion my face over her shoulder signaling that I want a bite of the food. To my surprise she puts it by my mouth and I eat the food out of her hand. (Only met 2 minutes ago) I then notice she has a tongue ring. So I look at my friend like "Yea you know I'm going to get this." She leaves after eating piece of the food and then I ask my friend who she was.

- Open this girl with a retarded opener. (Ever heard an automated sound system that says "welcome") I opened her as she came in the office she bursts out laughing and I vibe for a bit, but I was already talking to hbDD so I didn't bother talking more to the other girl. I also realized that was the same girl who I had some intense EC with a few months back where she stopped in the doorway and we were just looking at each other as if we were picturing each other having hardcore sex together.

-HBDD was all over me while I was talking to some friends. She has a BF! So I try my hardest not to escalate. Our faces were about 2 inches from each other.

-Open this other HBbigbreast who was calling me a weakling in gym. I could barely lift 105. So I was acting as if I was some big body builder guy who was about the lift the 200 weights. She did a lot of kino when I told her to rub my arms to give me strentgh. She was all into it and teasing me calling me a weakling. I actually liked that she was calling me weak.

- I was in the lunch room standing infront of this hb who blew me out months ago. (I tried opening her with a piece of toilet paper and she got pissed off and was saying some crap.) I'm standing there just looking at her with intense EC and she is looking back. She was giving me those "fuvk me" eyes. Meanwhile my friend had some girl on his back so I quickly throw my books on the table by the girl who was looking at me and I run and jump on top of the girl who was on top of my friend. I then went back over to get my book and the girl was just looking at me and keeping eye contact.

- Had some sign saying free jewlery cleaning. I open a 3 set and then one of them notices the sign. She gives me her ring and I act as if I'm cleaning it. Then I propose to her, they bust out laughing and she says no but she'll keep the ring. I then look at the other hb and tell her how her friend broke my heart. We play with this for about a min or two more. I then tell them about me having to put baby pictures in my year book. So I tell them I hope they my school can take naked baby pictures because thats all I have. An I start saying I had 6 pack abs back when I was 1 and then I lost them and I'm starting to get them back.

- I'm walking with a friend and I ask him if AFCkid is going to talk to hbbigtits. He tells me she says there just friends so thats my go code. I sit on the bleachers right behind her and AFCkid tries to tell me "What are you doing? You can sit up there?" I ignore him at first but then I think I was being an ass to him because he was trying to talk to her so I don't bother. AFCkid leaves us to go home with her and I just get pissed because he is acting so AFCish and he isn't going to fuvk her.

Next day hbbigtits calls me over to sit with her and I just build attraction and by this time I forgot about AFCkid. In less than 5 minutes she ask me "What do you put her?" because she had some paper that said "nombre" so I said "Number". She began to write her number and I told her I'll remember it. I ended up forget it. We vibed for about 25 minutes before I left. Later that day I seen her in a store with AFCkid who bought her Juice and lunch for the both of them. She notices me and calls me by the name she made up for me and I respond with the name I made up for her. I also say whats sup to AFCkid. She tries to tell me to sit next to her but I notice Hbbigbutt in the store too and since I don't want to ****block. I just tell hbbigtits that I don't want to bother them and that AFCkid will keep her company. I then walk off and talk to hbbigbutt.

Next day Hbbigtits sees me when I'm about to go home she notice me walking by and screams out my nickname and gives me a big hug. She then asks how come I didn't call her. (I thought she was playing around) I tell her I forgot it and then begin to pump BT. She then asks me to come home with her or something like that and I told her no because I don't want to fuvk up what AFCkid and her got going. (Which is really nothing going on.) She then walks arm in arm with me as I go find my friends. Before she leaves she tries to get one of my friends to walk her to the bus stop.

Overall even though I had a very bad week I still manage to atleast work on my skills at gaming. I'm going to start kissing as quick as possible because atleast 4 or 5 girls this week was looking as if I could've kissed them within the first 5 minutes. Even the hb at subway was looking at me this week as I ate my food and just had that face where she was picturing me naked and just wanted me to go over there and kiss her. At one point she couldn't hear me but she was so into the conversation that she asked me to repeat 3 times.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well I'm back once again and many things have happened this year and New years is coming up so it's time to get started with the real bootcamp.

This week was a very good week and mind opening. I had spoke to a pretty good PUA on aim and he told me one of my problems that I had. Usually in sets and with girls I would be to the point of asexual and act like I wouldn't fuk at all but I realized I was hurting myself. I also realize even though my eye contact was firm it wasn't communicating anything. So I started implementing a sexual vibe.

Teaching AFCkid
I have decided that AFCkid is in bad shape and I told him I'd teach him so gave him like a 2 hour crash course which I knew he couldn't get all in one. Basically talked about:
- Inner game
- How Women think
- Opening
- Attracting
- Vibing

I really never wanted to teach my friends but this kid has done some pretty afc things:
- Bought girls red lobster (40 dollars spent)
- Talked to a girl for 7 months and never laid
- Supplicates to every girl he speaks to
- Always trying to persuade girls
- Shy and quiet
- Him and his friend trying to get the same girl
- Asked a girl on his bday if he could have sex with her

An the lists goes on...But after that long session next day when he seen me he came in my class and seen me interacting with about 7 different girls. My main goal was just to show him how to just have fun and play around with girls. An to show him that it's not that serious and how you can gain attraction.

Teaching kid field day
I was pumpped and ready to get him into gear. When he came I go straight to work. Now in this class my teacher has this lady that also works there hb9. (I really want to lay this chick when I get out of that school) So she asks me where our senior trip is going to be at. I tell her some lie and then tell her the truth. She then talks about where her school went and where other trips that other seniors had went to in her school. Then I asked her what she got me for christmas and she asked if I got her anything I told her I did but got robbed.

Girls knock on the door to get it and I banter a bit. (Maybe 4 different girls) I'm just working the whole room. Then I send him into a 1set but he is leaning in and speaking real low. He was looking needy and it seems like her forgot everything I said yesterday. As we left I see a girl with a lot of balloons so I assmue its her bday. I act like its my bday and tell her thank you giving her a hug.

Library
It was packed as usually was working the room. Seen hb8 who I haven't seen in awhile I start telling her if she got my a christmas present and how I got robbed so I don't have one for her. Few other girls that I talk to don't remember what was said. Then I'm talking with my 3 friends and were just having fun everyone is looking at us.

Buffet
AFCkid tried to bring 2 girls that he knew but of course they flaked on him. Someone manage to bring the girl that afckid was talking to for 7 months. This was a wreck on AFCkids part.
- She sits next to me in the corner while AFCkid is sitting across from us
- There arguing the whole time and keeping her all logical.
- Each time she starts going on her logic mind I get her emotional again and then afckid fuks it up again
- Under the table I'm rubbing up on the girls thighs like 2 inches away from her crotch.
-After the buffet afckid is walking around with her just talking. From my view it looked so boring and like there was no fun going on.
- When leaving afckid was standing by her bus stop waiting for her to get on and then when his bus came by our side he runs to get on the bus lmao.

Other Highlights
-Talk with hbbigbreast, I think I'm going to forget my friends and just mess with her because she is attracted.

- Chick in subway plays around with me. Damn manager behind hblond and hbindian watching me and making sure I don't try anything. (Today I was going to # close) Next time I go the damn hblond ain't there she on vacation. So I tell hbindian to tell her next time I come I want my present.

- Girl in my art class who I've built sexual tension with finnally releases it by pinching my nipple real hard. (Its on!)

-Vibe more with security guard, she shows me her baby pictures and we just hangout for a bit, almost get her to buy me dominos but someone was trying to convince her and she said "yes she will" then right when the kid tried to convince her she said no. Then I gain attraction again and then tell her to do it and she says "Give me some money so we can put it together" then logic kid fuks it up again then I do attract again and this time she says "maybe" so I just forget about it and leave.

-Some girl afckid tries to talk to she was hanging with her but my friends was playing around saying no one talk to her but afckid. So I'm keeping eye contact (with the new advice) and when we get to the subway she is all over me like if were bf/gf. This girl has big breast and she is rubbing it all on me and leaning on me and overall just wants me to hold her. I try no to do push forward because afckid wants her and another friend wants her. An there both there with us. We get on the train and she is sitting down and I'm standing up while AFCkid is sitting infront of me. This girl gets up walks towards me and AFCkid thinks she is coming to sit by him so he moves his leg so she can't sit. She then gives him a little comment which I kind of felt bad for him she was like "eee I'm not coming over here to sit next to you I was coming for Snow." and she starts cuddling with me. I'm holding her waist and slowly lifting her shirt on the train touching her panties. But then I pull back because I think its fuked up if i mess with her.
 

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dude I really like you man
you remind me of my best friend, when I was an AFC he was a DJ and he converted me into a DJ (or something like that) I really could never thank him enough, and even though now the dude's in college and me still in hs, I still love this guy and we'll meet up again one day, if you can help this afcfriend of yours then he's gonna love you and it'll pay off cuz in a year or so you two'll be wingin' together and all
 

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And the story is over? =-o
Its awesome ur taking him under ur wing, i wish i had a DJ/PUA at my college show me the ropes...but hey, sometimes u just got to do it on ur own or with guys with the same skill level.
 

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FR: Christmas Family Gathering

This just showed me I don't have Core Confidence. I only have situational confidence. I roll up in there and didn't say merry christmas because its not who I am. An the thing is 75% of the people there I don't even know but there in my family. I see a hb that I seen during thanksgiving and I say hi to her but then kind of blank out as to whether I should sit by her or not. I decide to just sit there.

My older cousin starts telling me if I only came out for the food. I almost fell into her frame but I just play it cool. See my other cousin's and there all taking photos for there myspace page. Music is loud and I'm just pissed off that I'm here so I sit in the back take my brother's ipod and listen to music all day!

The thing is I rather be in a public event or on a train by myself than be where I was. Its like I felt the old me when I used to never say anything to my family when I go to these gatherings. After a good while the hb from thanksgiving sits in the back where I'm at. Also hb's sister and 2 other hbs.

Some info on them...
Hb7.5 - She is pretty and sister of the other hb.
HbTopmodel (hb7) - She dresses like one and she does fashion shows and stuff like that. She is hb7.5 sister
Hb8 - She is a classy, love her energy and she is different than any other girl I ever met personality wise. She likes me and I know it only thing she is 19-20 and I'm 17.

Well anyway the hbs have some little kids with them and hb8 has her sister there also. I'm just chillin until they say hi once again and Hb8 sh!t test me saying all I've been doing this whole night was listening to the ipod. I laugh and then her sister wants to hear what I'm listening too so I give it to her. After hb8 ends up sitting next to me and she is wondering if were family or not. I respond by telling her no and then one of my cousins actually comes by and sits on my lap hugging me all up.

Hb8 makes a face that gets me laughing. (Jealousy plotline by using my girl cousin lol) HB8 asks my cousin if I'm her cousin and I guess she realizes that, that is my cousin. So then me and hb8 starts talking a bit more I'm vibing with all the hbs. I then have to leave so I do a handshake with her. (She showed me a handshake first)

Overall the meetup sucked and I'm pissed I didn't speak to hb8 when the night first started. I was going back to my old ways and I was really in a bad mindset. Usually I kino early but today I didn't even break the barrier until later on. I'm really disappointed of this night and it sucked. A funny thing that did happen is one of the little girls called me and was trying to tell me that hb8 likes me.

2007 I'm going to do a big improvement on my game. My personality is going to be pimped out.
 

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Well had a 4 day week last week. It was pretty great but I can't remember most of the stuff that happened but I'll try to give a good idea of the stuff I do remember. All this happened in no particular order.

- With a group of friends and a girl walks by. One of my natural friends open her by saying "Hey is that the girl you were talking about." My other friend didn't want to talk to her. (Guess he was scared) So were standing there waiting for one of us to go I'm saying I should but I want to give one of my other friends a chance. No one goes so my natural friend # closes in less than a minute.

We get to wendys and there are atleast 8 different sets. An no one opens any of them. I'm thinking there going to open some sets because when I'm with my friends I like to hang back and watch unless they actually want me to go.

- UG tries to game me while I'm in a 3set. By mistake I touched her thigh when trying to get my eraser. She sh!t tested me for that and my dumb self passed it. (I should've failed it but I wasn't thinking at the time I was doing what I naturally do to pass sh!t tests) So I pass the test and she starts seducing me by lotioning my hands, touching my legs. OMG the horror I couldn't think of a way for her to leave.

Next day she wants me so she can draw my hand, but I know she is just trying to talk to me. She comes between me and my target and I just make an excuse like I'm busy that way she doesn't ask me anything.

Day after UG isn't there. (Thank god) So now there is a new girl there, so I say welcome back. Telling her how I missed her and had a search team looking for her. I go sit closer to my target as she draws my hand. (lol) A guy is in the set also and were just having fun controling the conversation. Then I joke and go into a story and then throw in some sexual innuendo which gets the girls dieing. Overall it was great

- Seen hb9 that all my friends know and I just mess around with her. She was on the phone and I go close to the phone saying "babe, come back to bed".

Next day see her agian with my friends and I see her with her come out the classroom while on the phone. My boy then tells me that she was faking it to walk with us. (I guess for me never know) I tell her to take a picture and do a male model pose. She agrees but she wants it with my 3 friends. I was expecting me and her so I just attract and end up making her take the pic of my 2 friends.

I tired I'll update the rest tomor.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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