"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mission: Get THE ONE WOMAN - Mission accomplished!!

TheLadiesMan

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As of right now, I am living breathing proof that this site works!

After my divorce, met a younger woman, worked my Big Daddyness, she's mine. Co-worker likes me as friend, worked my Big Daddyness, now she's also mine. Then, the one woman who I have been after a year ago, who is fine from head to toe... last night after work, I asked her if she wanted to go for drinks, she said yes... we go to the pub, have a few drinks, start shooting pool, I throw some money in a jukebox and asked her for a dance. She said yes.. then we danced really close, she whispered in my ear, it's been awhile since someone asked me to dance. I was like, 'YES!' all in my mind. Later that evening, after I let her catch up in wins against me in pool, we head back to the bar, have a few more drinks, sang a few songs witht he local band, then I said, 'I have to leave'.. she grabs her coat and we get out to the parking lot... she says, '..give me a hug. Thanks for the fun evening..' I hug her, she says, she likes hugs, I say, 'I can hug you forever'... she kisses me on my cheek... I turned, and softly kiss her on her lips, I hugged her once more, we said goodnight without saying another word, and walked to our cars and left... WOO HOO!!!!!!! So as of now...

I am seeing my girlfriend, my ex, my friend from work, and THE ONE WOMAN I have been trying to get with for over a year now...

Life is good...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gipper

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Originally posted by TheLadiesMan:
As of right now, I am living breathing proof that this site works!

After my divorce, met a younger woman, worked my Big Daddyness, she's mine. Co-worker likes me as friend, worked my Big Daddyness, now she's also mine. Then, the one woman who I have been after a year ago, who is fine from head to toe... last night after work, I asked her if she wanted to go for drinks, she said yes... we go to the pub, have a few drinks, start shooting pool, I throw some money in a jukebox and asked her for a dance. She said yes.. then we danced really close, she whispered in my ear, it's been awhile since someone asked me to dance. I was like, 'YES!' all in my mind. Later that evening, after I let her catch up in wins against me in pool, we head back to the bar, have a few more drinks, sang a few songs witht he local band, then I said, 'I have to leave'.. she grabs her coat and we get out to the parking lot... she says, '..give me a hug. Thanks for the fun evening..' I hug her, she says, she likes hugs, I say, 'I can hug you forever'... she kisses me on my cheek... I turned, and softly kiss her on her lips, I hugged her once more, we said goodnight without saying another word, and walked to our cars and left... WOO HOO!!!!!!! So as of now...

I am seeing my girlfriend, my ex, my friend from work, and THE ONE WOMAN I have been trying to get with for over a year now...

Life is good...
LadiesMan! Great to hear from you; it's been awhile.

Well done! I knew you had it in ya! Your experiences make my day. This is the kind of stuff I want to read about when I'm here.

I didn't know about the co-worker. Is she new? Also, how do manipulate your schedule so that you can see all three (or 4, including your ex) of these girls without getting busted? Or do any of them know your seeing someone else?

Inquiring minds want to know!

Curious Gipper

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"There's nothing wrong with letting the girls know you're money, and that you want to party.
-Trent, from "Swingers"
 

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Great LadiesMan, keep up the good work.

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The very first step to becoming what you want to be is to accept all responsibility for the situation you are in.
in short: quit whining!!!!!!!!!
 

TheLadiesMan

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Hey Gipper!!! Good to see ya!!

You know, right now, I'm just playing the Don thing and seeing how well I can get it... 4 women that would sleep with me right now. The co-worker THINKS that me and my girlfriend have split up.
So that's why she wants to date me. (Update!! As I'm typing this, I get an instant message that reads from my woman co-worker friend...
I have these FREE AMC movie passes that I need to use before they expire. They expire on 12/31/01...any suggestions? It also has free small soda and small popcorn....help....

If you think juggleing 4 women is gonna be tricky, two have the same names!!!


Wish me luck!!

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Originally posted by TheLadiesMan:
Hey Gipper!!! Good to see ya!!

You know, right now, I'm just playing the Don thing and seeing how well I can get it... 4 women that would sleep with me right now. The co-worker THINKS that me and my girlfriend have split up.
So that's why she wants to date me. (Update!! As I'm typing this, I get an instant message that reads...
I have these FREE AMC movie passes that I need to use before they expire. They expire on 12/31/01...any suggestions? It also has free small soda and small popcorn....help....

If you think juggleing 4 women is gonna be tricky, two have the same names!!!


Wish me luck!!
Yipes! Two with the same name! You are definitely on the razor's edge, my man!

As far as the passes go, take the girl who's the greatest movie buff.

Gipper
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey LadiesMan,

Great DJing!

Sounds like you have your A game going. I just wanted to give you a high 5. Let us know how things go.

Take Care,

Legend
 

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Wait a minute. TLM, far be it for me to preach morals, but something about you makes me want to slap some sense into you, bro.

I remember the last time I heard from you, you were devastated that your gf had split up with you cause you were seeing other girls and you felt that you fvcked up and wanted her back. Then you said this:

"I wish you can just believe me when I say to you that there is no other woman in my life but you my sexual chocolate. =)"

And you got her back. I DISTINCTLY remember asking you why you told her that lie.

Here is the thread.
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/009903.html

Forgive me if your current gf and this girl are two different people, but if we're talking about the same girl, you are one fvcked up dude. You are setting yourself up for a huge fall, especially considering how hard you took it when she dumped you.

I am a HUGE advocate of seeing multiple girls until you're ready for an LTR, but you gotta be at least semi-open that you're dating other girls, i.e. don't give boldfaced lies, or it will blow up in your face.

So straighten me out. I'm confused.

Jake

P.S. Good DJing skills otherwise, by the way. Bravo.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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