"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mission accomplished

Ben Dover

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Ciao,


i managed to get the girl i want...Girlfriend now.

so...ive noticed a few things

1. We werent exchanging that much sweet messages anymore. Wonder why?

2. She dont call much often..


And i also wanted to ask...Coz i found out that... Its harder to keep em than to get em? How do i Keep them? need tips...this is so new to me...


grazie
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bling

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You're a funny guy.... Maybe you should tell your new boyfriend to Bend over.
 

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Ok. Wtf? Whats the purpose of this site, This forum..if people wouldnt help you and give you good advice? hmmmmm......
 

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Ok, here is a few tips to help you kepp her.

1) Be a man
2) Keep doing whatever it was you did to get her
3) FLIRT
4) Be funny
5) Get physical
6) Get to know her
7) Hang out
8) Read the Dj bible to get more ideas
9) Tease her
10) Make sure to continue being a challenge to her

And i know that these work as i am in a relationship as well. It's easy man, don't over think things, just keep doing what worked for ya.

If she is attracted to you for X, then keep doing X.
 
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