"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am missing a lot of signals when talking to woman. How do you become more aware?

For example yesterday: a girl wanted to see my tongue for some reason. I show it playfully, she says she can't see it. I think she wanted to feel it... should have kissed her. Also she had a great metaphore about the inside that counts. We were talking about beer in a bottle or a glass, she suddenly talked about an attractive lady in sloppy pyjamas or a revealing outfit. That sounded quite sexual. So these were hints right? Why do I miss these things? OK, I wasn't really in the good mood cuz someone stole my coat. Didn't even go for a number close :( Wasn't thinking really, but even if I was I could have missed the indicators of interest.

Any pointers?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have been reading some topics on the forum for a while now. I would like to contribute and get a little help here, but if your post is a standard response... maybe registering was a mistake.
 
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MacDiddy said:
Oh look... a newbie...

just joined today, and he's already up with the lingo....

Yes! Take your medication.. and double the dosage..
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Come on dude. take it easy on the guy.

babsan,

Spotting signals really comes from experience. You need to read the dj bible to understand how this whole "pick up" thing works and how women react to the things we do and say.

If you KNOW how they should be acting and what they should be saying, it will be very easy to spot them.

If she for example asked to see you toungue, you could have come back with:

"Hey, my toungue is a very special and privilaged thing. you think i'd just show it to anyone or let them feel it????" :p

Instead of sitting there wondering if it was a signal or not. Dont want for them to give you signals. take control of the situation and make them do things that YOU want.

Good luck, and welcome.
 
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Hey Macdiddy, Go bang yourself with a giant jailhouse pedophile. Make sure he has hair on his back. You have 803 posts and you act like that? Choke on a love sausage azzwipe.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks for the useful reply and the welcome Fash. I was ****y and funny, but if I had said that it would have been c&f and sexual. Nice one. I wasn't wondering about signals btw, but after the good conversation and a bit of kino it struck me I didn't take it far enough.

Do you guys think that alcohol makes you miss more clear signals too?
 
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yes alcohol makes u miss singals.. the best thing is to be stay clam and relexed when ur talkin to girls.. act like its nothing big then u will see the singals more clearly.. if ur all nervous and worried about what to say instead of understanding singals then theres a problem..

read the bible and understand womanesse and understand what they want... you will suceed.. its gonna take a while though keep reading the bible for a week at least everyday and u will slowly understand..

once you understand the things then you must apply it in the feild.. thats the harder part.. u gotta apply it while talk to girls.. the other thing is confidence.. must have it in order to work in the field.. know that ur good.. know that you will suceed.. Know that women want a girl like you but dont get too conecied...
 
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If you are talking to a woman you have to be all there.

If there is no simple converational reason for you two being together then - why the hell else would you even be talking to them if there wasn't some flirting / sexual component to it? Do you want to learn how to buy shoes? Do you like gossiping about brad pitt and his wife? LOL

ASSUME every women you talk to likes you - then judge every single women on HOW MUCH THEY LIKE YOU based on their reponses. That should get you up to speed on picking up signals. Its pretty normal for men to think about sex with women 1000 times a day - thats what they are there for! :)

Good luck.
 
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What is it about jailhouse peadophiles that turns you on Rondavu?
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:crackup::crackup::crackup::crackup::crackup:

Whoa man, that's some solid GAME right there, you might have a new boyfriend pretty soon...

Is that mystery method or some classic Jeffries there?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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