"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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missing out on semi-formal

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Sometimes being too layed back about things can really hold you back.

Dumb me assuming tickets to my semi-formal would be on sale a week before, i went to buy them today, only to find out there arent selling them anymore. :confused: :eek: :mad:

then i realized how many single girls were going :eek:

any ideas on what to do!? i am missing out on a easy chance to dj tons of girls.

Atleast i am throwing the afterparty, any ideas on how to play that? Should i still dress up? lol

any advice djs?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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snag a ticket off an ill mate or go chat up the person that sold them or photocopy them
 
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tried the chattaing up, and theres no way to photcopy as there is a list of names, so i could only take somones spot if they were sick
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You're not missing out, unless your semiformal is different from mine. Here it was about a month ago, and it sucked hard. The food was crap - can't believe I paid 25 bucks for that. The dance ticket cost only $5 - the only money I needed to pay to have a good time.

As for the afterparty, don't dress up. Just don't. A part of being 'formal' or semi'formal' is restraining yourself, agreeing to the socalled 'norms'. Harder to have fun that way. So don't try to go for the sophisticated theme, since no one in hi school is sophisticated enough to enjoy it. I know I wouldn't, even though I took part in way too many formal events.
 
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Yeah, don't dress up, but look nice. You don't want to look too out of place. Just wear a button down shirt and some khakis or something like that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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