"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Missing Opportunities, maybe overanalyzing

bob2007

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I feel kinda crappy missing a couple opportunities. I don't know if my co worker was just pontificating the other day (hes married), but he seemed to sense my girl problems (only known him a month).

He thinks I overanalyze. But he was also quick to just randomly point out girls and tell me to game. I work in an investment bank (trade assistant, entry level position). Lots of people 500 + working the trading floor. Is this a good place? Technically I don't work direclty with many people.

Opportunity 2

Went to a bar with co workers, none of which I new in a diff city. I'm chinese usher, great at singing, I sing karaoke, somewhat drunk after 8 rounds of tequila. I saw a pretty girl by herself, looked kinda bored as her friend went off somewhere. I was hesitant, since I was with co workers, but I doubt that they would've cared. I didn't make a move.

Opportunity 3

Played soccer in nyc, pick up games, saw a hot girl, that was really good at the game, she seemed friendly. I'm sure she noticed how well I played. Got kicked off the field by new people with permits. Didn't make a move decided to follow buncha guys to another field.

I don't know why I couldn't seem to pull the trigger. I work and live in a crappy town outside nyc and yet I still dont' make a move. Maybe I need some goals, like 10 approaches a week or something.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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danielzxc

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If you've been a member here since 2001 and you're still trying to figure out if you overanalyze or not, I would say, yes, you do!


(Which invesment bank would have a trading floor outside nyc? Is it some boutique firm?)
 

bob2007

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danielzxc said:
If you've been a member here since 2001 and you're still trying to figure out if you overanalyze or not, I would say, yes, you do!


(Which invesment bank would have a trading floor outside nyc? Is it some boutique firm?)
Ya I think you've hit it right on bro.

It's the largest trading floor in the world. Does trading business under diff names. They're just cheap and want tax breaks. I bet they're missing out on top talent with headquarters outside nyc. UBS, great company, ****ty town.
 
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