"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Missed the boat

XYZhen

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Hey, so theres this girl i like, so we talked for about 2 months, from not knowing each other to talking to each other everyday. So, the week before the winterbreak, our school always has a school assembly on the last day of class, so its only a half day of class. So the week before that friday, i ask her if shes doing anything, and shes like no why? and i say well, i wassnt either and was wondering if you wanted to do something with me. She says sure, what do you want to do. I throw some ideas out there she says no, i ask her what she wants to do, she says your choice.
We dont really talk for the rest of the week. So friday rolls along, we havent talked for a week, so me and my friends and her friends are just talking and hanging out, slowly everyone starts to leave, when its just 4 of us, 3 of my friends and her. One of my friends asks her who's she waiting for, she says jude,I've never heard of a Jude before so i just shrug it off. So the thought go through my mind that we arent gonna be doing anything anymore, so i ask my other friend alice if she wants to do something infront of her face. Alice says sure, and we just leave.
2 hours later, i call her up, saying playfully, i thought we were gonna do something, she says, yeah i was waiting for you to ask me to leave. Apparently i was Jude, she was waiting for me to do something but i didn't.
So we still talk to each other everyday over the break, sometimes staying up until 7 AM getting to know each other better.
So school recently started, and we both arent always on time, so she kids and asks me if i'll wake her up. And i say sure why not, this has become a routine thing now. So, while at school, she is always with her 2 best friends, now, shes not the most attractive of the 3, but i like her personality. But the problem is, she's always with them! I can never get a chance to talk to her alone, and when she does come up to me shes with her friends, and i always seem to talk to the more attractive one first.
My friends say that i seem to flirt way more with the more attractive friend (winnie), but i don't like her at all. But the thing is, when the girl i like (stacey) comes up to me, i just dont talk to her, so when winnie and i were playing around, i said something stupid and she started to ignore me, and started to talk to me through stacey. So it would be like, stacey tell kevin that he's an idiot or something like that. I think that may have ticked her off, because she didnt talk to me at all that day.
I'm always giving hints, i think shes giving signals, but i'm not sure about how to go about asking her out, at this point, stacey thinks i like winnie for obvious reasons. But i don't, so i was in search of a way to ask her out.

so tl;dr, theres a girl i liked, messed up once, asked her out, forgot to actually take her out somewhere, i keep hitting on her friend without knowing it. Still like the girl, dont know how to go about asking her out.

TIA
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jeffthechef

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READ THE FUKIN BIBLE FIRST
it's highly obvious you haven't because all of your answers are in there

here's a summary
1. stop talking to her everyday and waking her up everyday....you're trying to get in bed with her not the thing that tells her to get out of it..

2. stop *****ing around...ask her out somewhere..and take her there...if she rejects all of your suggestions...just tell her to choose a place and call you when she's ready

3. stop being so damn indecisive...if you want the attractive one go for her..and if you want the one you like right now go for her...

stop thinking about what to do...you shouldn't even need to know if a girl likes you...but hey, at least you know she's interested...so why not just do it

read the bible...everything you need to handle 92% of situations is in there
 

eaglez1177

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If you like stacey so much then how come you never talk to her when winnie is around? Your too busy checking out winnie and flirting with her, you gotta concentrate on the girl you like and stop getting everyone so confused! If you dont like winnie, then screw her, who gives a sh*t if shes mad at you cuz shes worthless to you if your not interested.

From what it sounds like though, I have a gut feeling that winnie has something for you.
 
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