Ok so this is what happened. I met this girl yesterday and spent a couple of hours chillen with her ( going to starbucks, going to stores, tatoo place, etc.). I felt i was having good rapport with her and used a little kino too. Anyway, i find myself with her alone watching tv. I know i wanted to do something better so i ask if i could put my head on he shoulders cuz i was tired and she said yes. I did this to see if it could lead to making out or more, but i didn't know what to do next to make it happen. Can someone tell me what i could of done so the next time im in the same situation i kno what to do.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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start rubbing her lower back, her legs, her area above her croth and below her belly button. hands through the hair.
/edit. oops i thought you already were making out with her... (paragraphs are made for a reason... or the Enter button)
anyways
if you were girly enough to put your hands on HER shoulder, just rest your hands on her lap (palm down) and then jsut start tapping your finger or something... and listen to her breathing.
if she starts breathing heavy shes wanting more... if not.. she might be weirded out the fact that you're girly enough to have your head on her shoulder.
you should have gotten a pillow and had your head in her lap instead.
but this is totally retarded... this situation wont happen unless
You: I'm tired can i lay my head on your shoulder
Her: Sure
You thinking: I want to make out.
Her thinking: This is weird.
Later you log on sosuave.net
mvin10: Can someone tell me what i could of done so the next time im in the same situation i kno what to do.
Michele, l'Arcangelo: blah blah
Later hanging out with same girl
You: I'm tired can i lay my head on your shoulder again.
Her: ummm okaaaayyy...?
Then you'll be STARING at your cold nervous hands shake as you try and rub her legs and tap on her legs.
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what i'm saying is:
just because you read how to do something doesn't mean you're going to be 100% comfortable doing it if you couldn't do it the first time.
learn and live.
/edit. oops i thought you already were making out with her... (paragraphs are made for a reason... or the Enter button)
anyways
if you were girly enough to put your hands on HER shoulder, just rest your hands on her lap (palm down) and then jsut start tapping your finger or something... and listen to her breathing.
if she starts breathing heavy shes wanting more... if not.. she might be weirded out the fact that you're girly enough to have your head on her shoulder.
you should have gotten a pillow and had your head in her lap instead.
but this is totally retarded... this situation wont happen unless
You: I'm tired can i lay my head on your shoulder
Her: Sure
You thinking: I want to make out.
Her thinking: This is weird.
Later you log on sosuave.net
mvin10: Can someone tell me what i could of done so the next time im in the same situation i kno what to do.
Michele, l'Arcangelo: blah blah
Later hanging out with same girl
You: I'm tired can i lay my head on your shoulder again.
Her: ummm okaaaayyy...?
Then you'll be STARING at your cold nervous hands shake as you try and rub her legs and tap on her legs.
---
what i'm saying is:
just because you read how to do something doesn't mean you're going to be 100% comfortable doing it if you couldn't do it the first time.
learn and live.
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Michele l'Arcangelo
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editted^^
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
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Buck Rogers
Don Juan
Rule number one- dont ask if you can do Kino,Just do it, and when you do do it, dont worry about it.
unless she runs off, screams or slaps you of course.
unless she runs off, screams or slaps you of course.
SenorSuave
Don Juan
If you were looking to get somewhere, you wouldn't have asked for permission; women like to be lead, not followed. Then you could smell her hair and complement her on how good it smells. Lightly breath on her skin, and then initiate more kino by lightly rubbing your fingers along her skin. From their you can slowly advance towards the basement haha.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Right. Next time your watching tv with a girl and your tired, don't lean on her. It reverses your genders, she's supposed to lean on you.
What I do when I want to change from sitting next to eachother to lying across eachother is this:
Me: Hey stand up a sec.
Her: *slightly confused* Alrite
(she stands up)
(I stretch out along the sofa leaving no space for her)
Me: Yoink
Her: Hey! *sad puppy dog face*
Me: Don't worry, your not that large
(I grab her and pull her down into me)
(I either then kiss her if she lands with her face right up to mine or she makes herself comfortable and we continue watching tv)
What I do when I want to change from sitting next to eachother to lying across eachother is this:
Me: Hey stand up a sec.
Her: *slightly confused* Alrite
(she stands up)
(I stretch out along the sofa leaving no space for her)
Me: Yoink
Her: Hey! *sad puppy dog face*
Me: Don't worry, your not that large
(I grab her and pull her down into me)
(I either then kiss her if she lands with her face right up to mine or she makes herself comfortable and we continue watching tv)