"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Missed Opportunity?

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Well, this weekend was homecoming. I went with and without a date kind of. I am friends with this girl for a while, and she invited me into her limo. So we goto the dance, and she has her friend with her and I already know her already talked breifly with her. I pretty muched danced with her friend the whole night. After the dance she stayed becuase her mom didnt let us go into the city. Now in the limo all the couples(2 of them) were all making out and **** like that, while me and my other friend felt AFC, and I knew if she came in the limo I would have hooked up with her. I dont have oneitis for her, I just wanna hookup with her or do something. I see her in school and I have gym with her. Today I pretty much just ignored her while talking to this other girl, and I could tell she was wondering why I didnt talk to her. I am going to Six Flags, this friday with her and some friends, so I wanna know would that vibe still be their, or did I miss my opportunity and just forget about her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i had a good vibe with her. I dont know what to make of it. Im confused i guess
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i think ur analyzing this too much. if you want to hook up with her, just do it...talk to her, make plans, and follow thru.
 
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