"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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missed opportunity.....chance to recover?

wataf

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Well there is this girl i've known since highschool were both 21 now, i just started talking to a few months ago on msn i have been trying to line up the booty call and its been going well. She texted me last night and said she was drunk and out of town i texted her back and said i could pick her up if she came back, she said she would be back at around 3 i said ok phone me when your getting close. Problem being is when it came down to it i didnt feel like picking her up mainly because i didnt have a place to take her because im still at parents place and it was to risky to pick her up cause of dui. So she ends up spamming my phone i basically just ignored her.

So what should i do now, that i told this girl last night id pick her up but when she phoned to say she was in town i ignored her? Id be down to meet up with her tonight but dont know how to set it up after i kinda dropped the ball last night.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cw92

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so you promised to pick her up..then you just straight up ignored her? i don't think she was looking to hangout as much as finding a ride...
 

JEFE

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You should picked her up and fukk her in the car my man or just get her to her house and fucc her in there.

you want to call her to meet again????.....Chances are that she will tell you "**** off" :crackup:

what I would do is get ready to go out and call her if she tells you to go to hell then go out and find your self another girl
 

tafakna

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WATAF! You absolutely did not blew the opportunity... au contraire...

As you can see by her spamming your phone she got very interested after being ignored...

You can only blow your chance if you apologize, try to explain yourself or try to make up for not picking her up...
 
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