"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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missed oppertunities.

Chamber36

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i saw this girl yesterday and she looked like a girl i met in my dream.
I remember the dream like yesterday. The girl had curly BRIGHT blond hair, and firey red lips, along with blue-green eyes. and the clearest pale skin. Well i saw an exact replica of the one from my dream in RL yesterday! In my dream she was walking along the beach in a white night gown.

Instead of telling her i met her in my dream already, i fvcking chickened out.
There were 2 thoughts going through my head:

1. if i tell her i dreamed about her it might come across AFC.
2. Rules are guidelines!


my brain shortcircuited and i got nervous and jittery!! and she was so fine....

My uncle actually opened his ex-wife with "will you marry me?"

Maybe i should mix a little desperado into my don juan??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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uhhhh... dont tell a gril that she was in your dreams. That's already giving her the power. Just approach like you normally would do to any other girl. Don't put her on a pedestal.
 
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i hate when i fail to f close cause i have developed an emotional connection to soon with a female lol it may sound sillly but sometimes i actually like ber as a person and more than just sex and that never works out well for me cause i never get another chance lol
 
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