"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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whats up guys. Havent posted in awhile been real busy with work and such.

Anyways so I saw a friend at the bar last night danced with her tried to make out with her but she wouldn't so I said screw it and went and chilled had a good time. Anyways I was tired so I left at about 1ish and went to bed.

Anyways at 2 am i got a text asking me to come over.

Kinda annoying i was sleeping and left early haha. But anyways do you guys think I should try texting her tonight or should I next her
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nah.

She's either playing games or her first option fell through. Next her. If she booty calls go over and hit it but don't pursue.
 
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She was probably attracted to the fact you dropped her when she tried to friendzoned you/wouldn't let you out of the friend zone. Don't contact too soon but maybe wait a couple weeks. Invite her round for dinner, have a few glasses of wine and go swimming.
 
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I'd say just text her back "what do you want?" " I had the time last night but dont anymore. SOrry" and just leave it alone

If she texts you a week or two from then, don't be surprised.. However, don't go for whatever she's doing.. Just tell her "im at <same club/bar>" when you're there. IF shes comes, flirt, makeout and then smash.

If she doesn't go that time.. and she's being resistant.. Don't give her an ounce of attention.. Next.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lozboss said:
nah.

She's either playing games or her first option fell through. Next her. If she booty calls go over and hit it but don't pursue.
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I won't be surprised if OP isn't the first or the last number she texted that night, anyway you can ignore or send a "Sup" and then set up a meeting after she reply if she replied if not wait for another booty call from her again in the next weeks. Typical b!tches lol
 
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Gonna wait it out.

If she texts me again late at night whena shes drunk its on like donkey kong
 
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OlympicTim said:
whats up guys. Havent posted in awhile been real busy with work and such.

Anyways so I saw a friend at the bar last night danced with her tried to make out with her but she wouldn't so I said screw it and went and chilled had a good time. Anyways I was tired so I left at about 1ish and went to bed.

Anyways at 2 am i got a text asking me to come over.

Kinda annoying i was sleeping and left early haha. But anyways do you guys think I should try texting her tonight or should I next her
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nah she will wake up sober read the text she sent and likely cringe , and any immediate follow up from you will confirm your thirst to her

women act in the moment just because she felt that way yesterday doesnt mean she feels that way today .....
 
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