"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Missed a Booty Call

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Woke up this morning to a missed call at 2am from an old plate

she was clearly looking for a bang and had i been awake i probably would have had her over

but i wasnt

so im wondering now wether i should call her out on it and possibly start contact with her again

shes a good little fvck and quite a pretty girl but shes a slvt and it just fizzled out last time

so what would you do oh wise ones ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd reply: Hi I noticed you called, I was sleeping... was there something urgent?
 

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Midnight – this was a missed call not a missed text ?

Slightly different ball game ?

Is the need to respond still there im not convinced ?

In answer to your question I think she’s going to play it down to being
drunk – which to be honest wouldn’t benefit me in anyway

think im gonna let it slide

and take note to make sure i leave my phone on over night from now on lol :whistle:
 

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Bingo-Player said:
I think she’s going to play it down to being drunk
Exactly what I'm thinking. If you do respond go hardcore C&F (if it fits your personality), or maybe just a simple "my bad I was knocked" <leaves it open ended and isn't a complete fail if she doesn't respond or plays it down.
 

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MidnightCity said:
the reason i would respond is to let her know its cool for her to contact you. if you ignore the call altogether she might assume youre done with her and not bother anymore.

you still wanna bang her dont you?

yea fair point

duly noted ! :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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