“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Injess

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Prelude : I got a girl and currently we doing a long distance thing for a month as I have to go to site and work... Anyways we talk everyday on phone (been gone for 2 days now)... But I want her to miss me as I have noticed that Iam giving way too much attention... How do I make her miss me but not show that Iam depriving her of the attention she so badly wants...

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Skip a few days when you call her. Don't become predictable. Build mystery, which will develop curiosity, that enhances intrigue.

I think I made the same mistake with my last relationship.
 

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Calling your girl every day is bad habit to develop. The only way to break is to never start doing it.

The answer OP, is to let her call you. Start testing the waters of skipping a day when you plan to call her. See how she responds. If the blowback is severe there isn’t anything you can do because you fvcked up the communication pattern. If she can tolerate every other day, start missing two days. Increase the time between your reaching until she calls you out on it. If she calls or texts you- you have to answer and talk to her. We just want to slowly reduce your initiation of contact.

Do NOT verbalize this plan to her. Do not talk about needing space. Just do this through your action.
 
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Prelude : I got a girl and currently we doing a long distance thing for a month as I have to go to site and work... Anyways we talk everyday on phone (been gone for 2 days now)... But I want her to miss me as I have noticed that Iam giving way too much attention... How do I make her miss me but not show that Iam depriving her of the attention she so badly wants...

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You’ve already lost with that mindset. You want her to miss you? That’s something a female would say. Unless she’s your fiancé or wife, I would definitely go meet other chicks. You’ve got Oneitis. If you want her to “ miss you” then explore other options.

“Cut a chick off for a weekend let her know what she missed”. - Ma$e
 

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Prelude : I got a girl and currently we doing a long distance thing for a month as I have to go to site and work... Anyways we talk everyday on phone (been gone for 2 days now)... But I want her to miss me as I have noticed that Iam giving way too much attention... How do I make her miss me but not show that Iam depriving her of the attention she so badly wants...

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The only way for someone to genuinely is miss you is if your not present all the time. It sounds like you are giving her too much attention, she'll eventually get too comfortable and take it for granted.

No one misses someone that is always there. This is probably why marriage or living together can be unrealistic and eventually the cause of "falling out of love".

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