Miss 'LJBF' has invited me to a gathering: Do I go?

[Tomo]

Posted a week ago about Miss 'LJBF' because she bumped into an ex, blah blah blah and my AFC behavior up til that point. I am not proud as it must be a new record - 1 week was all it took as I stopped being a challenge. When she 'LJBF'ed me, I told her no thanks and NC'd that sh*t! Ironically I have to thank her as I had lulled myself into a stupor before that and after, signed back up to the gym, cleaned out the wardrobe, started socialising again and really hit everything in life hard and still going strong.

We are on good terms I think - NC since. I catch her staring at me but if I look back, she'll take out her phone or act awkwardly busy. If I bump into her, we'll smile, say hi then I will walk away with most of the time, a group of girls while she continues on herself.

So one of the other students in our year (I assume is her friend) has organised a gathering to get to know everyone in our year as we have just started. She has invited me along but I am not sure if I should go or not. I want to as I can see the benefits in networking. Yet I don't know if this is some form of manipulation upon her part. She is young - from secondary straight out to uni but what she has taught me ironically is that this innocence we assume, is always our own mental image built and we are just joking ourselves into believing it.

Any thoughts? Furthermore if you guys think I should go, how do I go about carrying myself as most likely, I won't know many at this gathering.

 

[Skyline]

If you're both on 'good terms' then i dont see why not. Especially if you dont know a lot of people right now you could potentially expand and meet someone else. Go to meet new people, not for her.

And like i said before, she has at least one hot friend.

 

[Uncharted]

I would say no, but if she has hot friends, yes. Because the only use that you have for her is to introduce you to hot girlfriends.

 

[TheWolfMan]

I would go, but treat her as you've been treating her just be polite and friendly. Socialize with other girls at the party, that way A. you can network and B. if she's interested in something more than it's on her to make a move. Just go to the party to have fun and don't worry about her.

 

[backbreaker]

there is no way that you can go to this party, under any circumstnace and not spend the entire night mind fvckig yourself over every little thing the LJBF girl goes. there is no positive end game by going to the party under any circumstances you care about this one too much to even seriously game other chicks there.

just don't go.

 

[Von Huge]

there is no way that you can go to this party, under any circumstnace and not spend the entire night mind fvckig yourself over every little thing the LJBF girl goes. there is no positive end game by going to the party under any circumstances you care about this one too much to even seriously game other chicks there.

just don't go.

Yes there is. If there's hot girls there and he's busy just being fun and energetic, there is absolutely good reason to go. If on the other hand he's busy standing in the corner staring at LJBF all night, it's not worth going.

 

[Tomo]

Cheers guys. Have a plate and a few girls I'm friendly with also going that night. But have planned a roadtrip away with another group of friends so after much thought and input from you all, I've decided to take the latter and not let said HB garner anything from me.