"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
misreading friendliness for flirting?
- Thread starter joekerr31
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
In my opinion, there really isn't a way to know for sure. Some guys have these "formulas" they've contrived, where they think they can decipher a women's true intentions, but I think it's hog wash.
The human pscyhe is far too complex for a simple formula to be accurate.
The only way to know is to ask her out.
YEAH.
But please, don't get that "oh, so if I ask her out and she says NO then I'll give her a egoboost yadda yadda yadda" crap. Always remember: it's about YOU, not her. If you want her, GO FOR IT. Do NOT make any excuses for your desires. If she says NO, it's always good, because you now KNOW that it is not going to happen: you can find another one without any regrets
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sayajin_Prince
Don Juan
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