Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Misogyny is an AFC trait

Is misogyny an AFC trait?

  • True. AFCs are misogynist.

  • False. Don Juans are misogynist.


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SeymourCake

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True or False?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Misogyny is not rational, therefore it is weak. Woman act the way they do because they are women. Hating women because of their behavior is like hating the fact that the sky is blue. An AFC can be a misogynist, but a misogynist is not necessarily an AFC therefor false.
 

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If misogyny is considered a "prejudice" against women, and a prejudice is an "opinion not based on experience or reason", I would first need to say that I am not a misogynyst(sp) because my firm beliefs on women are all based on experience and reason. They are based on the fact that 9 out of 10 women I know have wronged me in some way, some small,and some huge. To the contrary, only 1 of maybe 20 men I know have wronged me in any way. That is nothing but fact and math in my world.

That being said, if a person is a true misogynyst then that means they are prejudice against women with no experience or reason as to why, they just are...So at that point I would have to say that yes, TRUE, misogyny is AFC.... Because a real man has experience and reason for his beliefs. A real man develops his own beliefs based on HIS world, not someone else's.... An average frustrated chump would be the type to go along with something "just because" others have done it, or some other illogical reason..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thatfeel

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OP is poisoning the well, move along folks, nothing to see here.
 

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You might as well ask if immortality is a good thing or a bad thing. You are talking about an abstract, theoretical concept that doesn't exist in real life.
 

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I don't think it's an AFC trait, but let's see, am I misogynist?

Misogyny is defined as the dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. So apparently if you have either one of the three (dislike, contempt or prejudice) against women, you can be labeled a misogynist. So let's see if I have one of the three?

- To be prejudice is to have a preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience. So let's check this one off the list as I'm not prejudice against women because ALL of my opinions about women are based on actual experiences which then lead to analysis and reason.

- To dislike something is to have a distaste for it. Women provide Sex and Companionship benefits and those benefits are important to me. Based on that, I can't have a distaste for women. So let's check that one off the list.

- To have contempt for something, is to have a feeling that a person or a thing is beneath consideration, worthless, or deserving scorn. I don't believe women are worthless in my life (sex and companionship benefits) and I don't believe they are beneath consideration, but let's see.....do they deserve scorn?

The definition of Scorn is the belief that someone is despicable.

Based on my experiences with women, as well as watching how this society has changed, families have been destroyed, children's lives have been destroyed, and a lot more due to the stupid actions of women, feminism and gynocentrism, I can admit without shame that I sure do have a lot of SCORN for women as their actions are damn despicable.

So am I misogynist? Based on the definition, I guess I am. Doesn't mean I still won't use women for the only benefits that they provide today, which is Sex and Companionship :).
 

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And let's face it: the word is used by women for women. Some women are turned on by it, while other women absolutely are repulsed by it.

I'd like to see a thread that focuses on misandry. How often do you hear that word?? Even though it abounds in society today.
Misandry exists, but let's not derail the thread.

You might as well ask if immortality is a good thing or a bad thing. You are talking about an abstract, theoretical concept that doesn't exist in real life.
Misogyny does not exist? Is that what you truly believe?

What about other forms of bigotry? Do you believe those are 'abstract, theoretical concept that doesn't exist in real life'?

I don't understand the comparison between immortality and misogyny. Those are two entirely different concepts that do not relate to each other at all.
 

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Misogyny is an inferior mindset IMO.

Hatred for women is not the same as having a lack of respect for them.

What's worse though is painting all women with the same brush because, like everyone else some are better than others.

I personally go into all situations with an open mind.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I wouldn't have a problem considering misogyny an AFC trait. It's just a form of expressing and overcompensating for fear of females, specifically their natural influence on men for obvious reasons. It's men that feel women want to take all the power, so they push women down in a desperate way to hold power. But it's really not ok for a woman to experience this and thus not very loving of a man to do.
 

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Lots of them have quirks that irritate.
A guy whinging about getting rejected or how women are going for the swarthy hunk over him might be considered lacking emotional intelligence, but in social and dating arenas many females have a tendency to speak without thinking and lack logic, and its a recipe for disaster.
Media ought to stop portraying them as precious delicate flowers and prioritizing causes for them when there is no evidence of previous good deeds.
 
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