"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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misconception of games/sh*t tests?

solo1

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from past experiences up till now it appears women with low interest play games, which often proved true.

As for **** tests, i cant quite say the same, as it randomly occurs and you always have to stay aware. it seems that women with low IL and high IL do this.

am i right or do women of both low & high IL play games & test?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJsparky

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a small tip, play the games with her. I have been doing this to my gf and she hasnt played any games with me so far, it works perfect :)
 

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A girl once started playing this lil game with me and i cant remember what i said but she replied "Oh Shh! I consider myself pretty good at this"

To which i replied "Your not" and "Your good, but im just better"
 

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men benefit from the neg-hit with a woman cause it knocks them off their pedestal.
women do the opposite which is the nag-hit and that determines if you'll take their crap or not to see if your worthy. the nag-hit consists of head games, drama, and trying to lower your ego.
 

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best thing to say "I know what you're trying to do." then just smile.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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keep your frame about you at all times. and most games or tests will be irrelivent because you will naturally pass then. the key is controlling your frame. dont get mad because she is doing it and dont get angry at something she says
 

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DJsparky said:
a small tip, play the games with her. I have been doing this to my gf and she hasnt played any games with me so far, it works perfect :)
Fool, your girlfriend is an advanced gamer; all women play games and yet she has you believing that she hasn't played any...:rockon:
 

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Veracity said:
Fool, your girlfriend is an advanced gamer; all women play games and yet she has you believing that she hasn't played any...:rockon:
well sorry , you seem to know my girlfriend better then me :p
 
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