"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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misconception of games/sh*t tests?

solo1

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from past experiences up till now it appears women with low interest play games, which often proved true.

As for **** tests, i cant quite say the same, as it randomly occurs and you always have to stay aware. it seems that women with low IL and high IL do this.

am i right or do women of both low & high IL play games & test?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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a small tip, play the games with her. I have been doing this to my gf and she hasnt played any games with me so far, it works perfect :)
 

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A girl once started playing this lil game with me and i cant remember what i said but she replied "Oh Shh! I consider myself pretty good at this"

To which i replied "Your not" and "Your good, but im just better"
 

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men benefit from the neg-hit with a woman cause it knocks them off their pedestal.
women do the opposite which is the nag-hit and that determines if you'll take their crap or not to see if your worthy. the nag-hit consists of head games, drama, and trying to lower your ego.
 

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best thing to say "I know what you're trying to do." then just smile.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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keep your frame about you at all times. and most games or tests will be irrelivent because you will naturally pass then. the key is controlling your frame. dont get mad because she is doing it and dont get angry at something she says
 

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DJsparky said:
a small tip, play the games with her. I have been doing this to my gf and she hasnt played any games with me so far, it works perfect :)
Fool, your girlfriend is an advanced gamer; all women play games and yet she has you believing that she hasn't played any...:rockon:
 

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Veracity said:
Fool, your girlfriend is an advanced gamer; all women play games and yet she has you believing that she hasn't played any...:rockon:
well sorry , you seem to know my girlfriend better then me :p
 
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