"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kanadasutra

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I have only one comment for now:

1. Color sheme: From what i have read in annoncement, it's not the definitive one: Definitively too much white in the border of the box of messages (not sure how to name that), wich create a too big contrast... I already feel my eyes burning!


Otherwise, i see there is some nice new features and i am glad to see the board back and running!

ps: I first wrote two comments, the second about the e-mail visible option wich was "no" by default. I realised that the e-mail is not visible and the e-mail is sent throught the board. I reacted fast like a newbee! My bad!

Anyway that reminded me about this, wich should interest hotmail users:

Someone told me recently about Hotmail accout options. Look at .NET Passport section in the Profile option You will be surprised that your info are shared to other compagnies without your express consent.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Page

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I don't mind the layout (it's sort of like the forum at another site i go to). The new features (like being able to see who's on the forums right now)
are nice, too.


However, I do want the old colour scheme back, and i also want the old smilies/message icons back.


Also, i miss not being able to review the thread when I post a new message.
 

oOh Nasty

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yeah...it sucks that we can't review the thread... i usually have to be able to see whut im posting a response on so i can look back and quote specific things...
 

jive

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ill add to this post - can you have the webpage name changed? Instead of having it
Don Juan Discussion - TOPIC NAME
have it as
TOPIC NAME - Don Juan Discussion
like it used to be.

the reason for this request is that i put a lot of posts as favorites, and if the topic name is long i wont be able to see the whole name of it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ledoyen

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Originally posted by Page
I don't mind the layout (it's sort of like the forum at another site i go to). The new features (like being able to see who's on the forums right now)
are nice, too.


However, I do want the old colour scheme back, and i also want the old smilies/message icons back.


Also, i miss not being able to review the thread when I post a new message.
Amen!
 
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