Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Who is all from here? Let's get a group going. PUA, AFC, whatever, it doesn't matter where you're at. I got a couple others interested in getting a bigger group out. NONE of us study any bull**** methods that obviously don't work, despite what some like to think. Most PUA **** you read online is CRAP, and we will work together on what really works. I'm not saying I'm a MPUA but I'm just saying most methods are crap. I/we are looking for other like minded guys who just want to go out and meet women. Help each other with out Approach Anxiety and what not. And whatever else deals with pickup and will now share with you the best opener in all of pick up are you ready? It's easy the best opener and has got me k-closes, f-closes and number closes here it is:



"Hi"

There ya have it.


hit me up
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey. I'm in Minneapolis and I would be interested in joining your group. What bars do you usually go to? I usually like to hit bootleggers and the Imperial Room.
 

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Hey there, I was wondering if you guys are still looking for a wingman to join the ranks, possibly start some game in Minneapolis.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJBilly said:
MInnetonka
dude Im right next door to Hopkins, hit me up a PM or add me on facebook, if you see this like very soon I need a wing in uptown tonight!
 

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I live in SE MPLS (I go to the U). Don't have a lot of time with classes and whatnot (yes, even in the summer), but I'm trying to up my bar game. I think I'm way younger than all you guys though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ARrocket said:
I live in SE MPLS (I go to the U). Don't have a lot of time with classes and whatnot (yes, even in the summer), but I'm trying to up my bar game. I think I'm way younger than all you guys though.

dude your 21 your good mate' if you serious hit me up via the pm's I would love to get into the U college scene
 

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I'm seriously considering moving to Minnesota (probably in the twin cities area) in the next 2-3 years.

What's it like there? I haven't really heard anything that bad about it, except the winters are harsh... I'm from Canada, and my city is the same latitude as Moscow, so I think I can handle it!

Any info would be great.
 

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Fuglydude said:
I'm seriously considering moving to Minnesota (probably in the twin cities area) in the next 2-3 years.

What's it like there? I haven't really heard anything that bad about it, except the winters are harsh... I'm from Canada, and my city is the same latitude as Moscow, so I think I can handle it!

Any info would be great.
Minnesota is cool if you can stand the cold which should be no problem since you live in Canada. If your a Winter guy you will be just fine

Theres lots to do if you go to the city, the burbs are boring, in terms of chicks we have all types, and I don't see a problem fugly with you getting it in(seen your pics no homo). Chicks here are easy to game if your in great shape and look good.

However for every hottie their 15 whales
 

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Solomon said:
Minnesota is cool if you can stand the cold which should be no problem since you live in Canada. If your a Winter guy you will be just fine

Theres lots to do if you go to the city, the burbs are boring, in terms of chicks we have all types, and I don't see a problem fugly with you getting it in(seen your pics no homo). Chicks here are easy to game if your in great shape and look good.

However for every hottie their 15 whales
I'm hooked up so not really looking for anything on the side! Just gonna move for career goals. Gotta retake some courses, so I'll be in school part time for the first couple of years down there as well as working full time. Its always nice to go to class with a bunch of hot young 18-20 year olds when you're an old creep mofo like me muahahaha! Always wanted to be the old creepy guy on campus :D

Just hope its a pretty chill place like Canada, w/ warmer/longer summers and lower cost of living, especially housing wise. Plus they got an NFL team! I've heard the city and surrounding countryside is also quite beautiful, as is the wilderness.

Thanks for the info.
 

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Fuglydude said:
Plus they got an NFL team!.
That's debatable :crackup: (Note: I'm not a native Minnesotan, so screw the Vikes, go Cowboys!!)

The Twin Cities are pretty cool, I grew up in Milwaukee and spent a lot of time in Chicago, there is definitely a different vibe here, less urban, more spread out, more white people, but overall I enjoy it. The city is freakin beautiful in the summertime.

I've only lived here like 3 years so maybe others know more, but Minneapolis seems kind of like a Portland type city, whereas Saint Paul seems more gritty.

It's a 4 sport town with tons of museums, decent nightlife (from what I've experienced), tons of Fortune 500 companies, a good arts scene, and a sweet skyline.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fuglydude said:
I'm hooked up so not really looking for anything on the side! Just gonna move for career goals. Gotta retake some courses, so I'll be in school part time for the first couple of years down there as well as working full time. Its always nice to go to class with a bunch of hot young 18-20 year olds when you're an old creep mofo like me muahahaha! Always wanted to be the old creepy guy on campus :D

Just hope its a pretty chill place like Canada, w/ warmer/longer summers and lower cost of living, especially housing wise. Plus they got an NFL team! I've heard the city and surrounding countryside is also quite beautiful, as is the wilderness.

Thanks for the info.
The college chicks are prolly the hottest, espeically at the U, we get them imported from all over i.e. cali, new york etc

I know your not gonna play on the side doesn't mean you can't be a good wingman lol

p.s. in terms of furthering your education this is one of the best states to do it
 

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Solomon said:
The college chicks are prolly the hottest, espeically at the U, we get them imported from all over i.e. cali, new york etc

I know your not gonna play on the side doesn't mean you can't be a good wingman lol

p.s. in terms of furthering your education this is one of the best states to do it

Haha, ya I think I'm a reasonably good wingman as I have absolutely no problem falling on the grenade in a group of girls!

Ya, definitely some pretty good anesthesia schools there from what I've read.

How's the cost of living?
 
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