"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Minimum height for men

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I'm not a typical woman in this respect so take my response with a grain of salt if you will (or several), but this is how I see it.

Personally, I don't care too terribly much about height. Here's the proof: I'm 5'8" (barefoot) and my boyfriend is 5'4" (with shoes).

I bet you're asking, "Is he rich?" The answer: no, not at all. He lives in the ghetto and barely scrapes by at times.

Now you might ask, "Is he hot?" The answer: he's attractive, but not fvck-me hot.

Then you probably ask, "Why are you with a guy who's poor, average, and four inches shorter than you? What could you see in a guy?" My first answer would be his personality, but because this thread is strictly about looks I'll say that he has a masculine appearance.

My boyfriend is very athletic. His body is pure hard muscle. He can pick me up easily and can defend me from sex offenders. He's hygienic and has clear skin. He wears clothes that fit him.

Don't stress so much about height. You can't change it. To increase appeal, my advice to short guys would be to stay in good shape, be hygienic, and dress well. (Baggy clothes make you look smaller.) And for God's sake, be confident. One of the first things I noticed about my guy was his confidence and independence, two things that, in the end, account for more than how tall you are.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Point has to be made that as far as I can see, girls want what other girls want. They don't really know why they want anything beyond that reason. What they say they want doesn't mean much in most cases, though there are exceptions. ALthough my gf gets off on me being 6'4', that's because I chuck her around in the sack and because she's little in most places, not because I'm 6'4'. I could be 5'9 and still have that effect because she's still gonna be smaller than me.
I think this: if she's a bit taller than you, it doesn't matter so long as you're bulky in the upper bod. Ignore it. I get turned on by chics who are my height, the ones that aren't lesbian basketballers. It's about physical dominance, so just get big shoulders and wear collared shirts and vertical stripes. Dunno if that makes sense but think of it like this: height is like having a flash car. Does it mean you can drive smoothly through a packed 8 lane freeway network? no. Does it mean you have a big dong? no. It doesn't mean sh!t unless you use the height to your advantage, and most guys won't. Just lift weights.
 

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girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
I'm not a typical woman in this respect so take my response with a grain of salt if you will (or several), but this is how I see it.

Personally, I don't care too terribly much about height. Here's the proof: I'm 5'8" (barefoot) and my boyfriend is 5'4" (with shoes).

I bet you're asking, "Is he rich?" The answer: no, not at all. He lives in the ghetto and barely scrapes by at times.

Now you might ask, "Is he hot?" The answer: he's attractive, but not fvck-me hot.

Then you probably ask, "Why are you with a guy who's poor, average, and four inches shorter than you? What could you see in a guy?" My first answer would be his personality, but because this thread is strictly about looks I'll say that he has a masculine appearance.

My boyfriend is very athletic. His body is pure hard muscle. He can pick me up easily and can defend me from sex offenders. He's hygienic and has clear skin. He wears clothes that fit him.

Don't stress so much about height. You can't change it. To increase appeal, my advice to short guys would be to stay in good shape, be hygienic, and dress well. (Baggy clothes make you look smaller.) And for God's sake, be confident. One of the first things I noticed about my guy was his confidence and independence, two things that, in the end, account for more than how tall you are.
Yes! There you go. You can use height to convey some of these things, or you can be the real deal in other ways for the same effect.
 

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I know lafit Pincay III and he can't be taller than 5'5 and gets more ass than almost anyone here
 
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